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How fertile are you after one month of abortion?

posted 28th Jun '12
A friend of mine and I are trying to do some research on the internet and we aren't really finding a lot. Different answers yeah but I asked her if I could ask on here to see if any of your ladies could answer the question for us as well.
My friend had an abortion in May, she started having sex again this month. She did not use protection twice with her guy. She said the first time she didn't have protection the guy came but she said he pulled out I guess in time, but she believes he didn't pull out all the way so it landed all around her vagina and even a bit inside the lip area. She also said that when she went to the restroom to pee and when she wiped herself she saw mucus on the toilet paper. I was telling her it might have been her mucus, but then again we can't be so sure. The second time they didn't use protection he finished in her completely and let her know he did. She's a bit frightened that she will become pregnant. Now some of the answers we found on the internet were that you wont return to be fertile till maybe after two months of the abortion. Some say that you are fertile for two weeks. I am telling her to wait two weeks so she can test.

PLEASE DO NOT QUOTE!!
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 28th Jun '12
She might be but can I ask why She is having unprotected sex if She got an abortion and didn't want the baby?
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I have 1 child & live in Johnsonburg, Pennsylvania
posted 28th Jun '12
^^ exactly what i was thinking
DUMB DUMB DUMB
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I'm due July 13th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Pennsylvania
posted 28th Jun '12
   

EXACTLY what i told her too. I already had that talk with her, i would think abortion would be something big to get over. But I guess I can't push her for her decision.
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 28th Jun '12
She should get on BC if she doesn't want to get pregnant. Has she tried calling the clinic to ask? I would think that's something they should inform women about.
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I live in Florida
posted 28th Jun '12
She has not tried calling the clinic, and it is something they inform them about! I do not want to judge her though.
We've been on google trying to find answers, truth is she just needs to wait and get tested in a week or so, that will give her her answer, she's in denial though
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 28th Jun '12
Quoting Mommy#1♥:" She has not tried calling the clinic, and it is something they inform them about! I do not want to judge ... [snip!] ... answers, truth is she just needs to wait and get tested in a week or so, that will give her her answer, she's in denial though"

I think she should be using BC if she's so worried about getting pregnant. She didn't think to get the morning after pill?
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I live in Florida
posted 28th Jun '12
Quoting 𝒮unкissed:" I think she should be using BC if she's so worried about getting pregnant. She didn't think to get the morning after pill?"

And they gave her BC that day I believe. She said she only used it to regulate her period, other than that she has been using condoms. And no she didn't, I will let her know though.
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 28th Jun '12
Morning after pill!!!!!!
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I have 2 kids & live in Florida
posted 28th Jun '12
Quoting *MommyLove*:" Morning after pill!!!!!!"

How soon after are you supposed to take it?
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 28th Jun '12
Quoting Mommy#1♥:" How soon after are you supposed to take it?"

  • Birth control you can use to prevent pregnancy up to five days (120 hours) after unprotected sex
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    I have 2 kids & live in Florida
    posted 28th Jun '12
    Quoting *MommyLove*:" Birth control you can use to prevent pregnancy up to five days (120 hours) after unprotected sex "


    I thought it was only 72. Good to know!
    Though OP, if she is already pregnant, the morning after pill won't do anything.
    She needs to be on birth control. After an abortion you are as fertile as you would be after giving birth.
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    I'm due September 29th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ontario
    posted 28th Jun '12
    Quoting JL Carnahan:" She might be but can I ask why She is having unprotected sex if She got an abortion and didn't want the baby?"

       
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    I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Neepawa, Manitoba
    posted 1st Jul '12
    my clinic simply told me you are extra fertile after an abortion just like you are after you have a baby.
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    I have 1 child & live in Arkansas
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