re: I know it wrong, but is it the right decision?
7575 postsposted 9th May
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:“ :sigh: I know. But he dosent deserve it and I dont deserve his s*** either. =/ I dont know how to go ... [snip!] ... our baby you know? & I feel that Im at risk. oh no I know I wont have a miscarriage I take care of myself very very well.”
You don't deserve what?
You or him may not deserve certain things, but your child deserves to have the access of TWO parents. How do you think your child will feel when they ask who their dad is? & you say, "he thinks you're dead." Not nice.
Teddy's father isn't a bit interested in him, & it sure as hell would have been easier to have never even told him I was pregnant. But I didn't go for the easy option, I went for the option that was best for my child. I gave his dad a chance, & he messed up. Wouldn't it be fair to give your child's father a chance?
I have 1 child & live in Essex, United Kingdom
5568 postsposted 9th May
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:“ :sigh: I know. But he dosent deserve it and I dont deserve his s*** either. =/ I dont know how to go ... [snip!] ... our baby you know? & I feel that Im at risk. oh no I know I wont have a miscarriage I take care of myself very very well.”
Sweetheart, you had sex with a moron, deal with the consequences. Is lying an attribute you want your child to have? Hmmm.
I have 1 child & live in Brisbane, Australia
895 postsposted 9th May
Quoting 9 days left!:“ oops i dont think u said anything about giving her up oops sorrry but still just move”
lol Its okay. No I didnt I dont plan on it either..I dont consider abortions or adoption. If I get pregnant ehhh I choose tohave sex & I knew the risks.
I'm due December 7th, have 1 child & live in Ocala, Florida
posted 9th May
Quoting amy doll.:“ You don't deserve what? You or him may not deserve certain things, but your child deserves to have ... [snip!] ... was best for my child. I gave his dad a chance, & he messed up. Wouldn't it be fair to give your child's father a chance?”
That is so true. I agree
I have 1 child & live in Brisbane, Australia
posted 9th May
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:“ Right now Yeah it is, about me my son and this baby. What I plan on doing for the better of their lives! & Im not trying to deal with the cops in this anyway..Its not like I hate they guy?”
& how exactly do you see that keeping your child away from it's father, is best for them?
I have 1 child & live in Essex, United Kingdom
4880 postsposted 9th May
I'm confused, you don't hate him...but you told him the child you made together died so he would leave you alone and you could go on with whatever you felt like you needed to do?
quoteI have 1 child & live in Dothan, Alabama
posted 9th May
Quoting amy doll.:“ You don't deserve what? You or him may not deserve certain things, but your child deserves to have ... [snip!] ... was best for my child. I gave his dad a chance, & he messed up. Wouldn't it be fair to give your child's father a chance?”I did I give him plenty. & women Ive told him. IVe waited...Ive had 4328743589755hour long talks & they always end up in the same result, Im looking for a positive in this, but it seems to not be working but its done and yeah its happening and I dont plan on telling him Im still pregnant Im not going to get myself beat up by some of his little friends because he dosent want a baby or my baby taken from me just because hes a dildo.
I'm due December 7th, have 1 child & live in Ocala, Florida
posted 9th May
Quoting Ladee*6DAYS!*:“ I'm confused, you don't hate him...but you told him the child you made together died so he would leave you alone and you could go on with whatever you felt like you needed to do?”
I have 1 child & live in Brisbane, Australia
posted 9th May
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:“ I did I give him plenty. & women Ive told him. IVe waited...Ive had 4328743589755hour long talks ... [snip!] ... myself beat up by some of his little friends because he dosent want a baby or my baby taken from me just because hes a dildo.”
Wtf? You don't even make sense. Your child hasn't even been born, so how do you see that you've given him a chance?
You're actions are immature, but whatever. You'll only have your child to answer to.
I have 1 child & live in Essex, United Kingdom
posted 9th May
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:“ I did I give him plenty. & women Ive told him. IVe waited...Ive had 4328743589755hour long talks ... [snip!] ... myself beat up by some of his little friends because he dosent want a baby or my baby taken from me just because hes a dildo.”
You had sex with him deal with the consequences! He's the father and has a right to know his child exist. I'd put money on that yu're exaggerating about his friends kicking you to kill the baby. If you were hanging around with retarded wankers that act like they are 15 year old thugs maybe you need your head checked
I have 1 child & live in Brisbane, Australia
posted 9th May
Quoting Ladee*6DAYS!*:“ I'm confused, you don't hate him...but you told him the child you made together died so he would leave you alone and you could go on with whatever you felt like you needed to do?”I dont hate him, Im stupid for saying this. Yeah I have feelings for him..on some level I feel Im in love with the dman idiot. But I dont want to deal with this...especially if hes on that level...ITs kin dof hard if you sat down and listened to the whole story then youll understand a bit more ja know?
& not to quite leave me alone...but hes always yelling and telling me to get rid or "it". & like ive stated everyone wants omething different what about me? What about what I feel is right for my children...I mean the first one came out fine, polite everything & I did it by myself.
I'm due December 7th, have 1 child & live in Ocala, Florida
posted 9th May
Quoting amy doll.:“ & how exactly do you see that keeping your child away from it's father, is best for them?”
Wait let me correct you on this one. Number 1 me and the guy were together until he found some hoochie messed with her & got he rpregnant forgot about me 2months after my son was born. Thats that, I dont feel that its greeat that Ivemade this decision but I feel that its the right thing.
I'm due December 7th, have 1 child & live in Ocala, Florida
posted 9th May
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:“ I dont hate him, Im stupid for saying this. Yeah I have feelings for him..on some level I feel Im in ... [snip!] ... about what I feel is right for my children...I mean the first one came out fine, polite everything & I did it by myself.”
I don't think you're doing what's right for your child, you're doing what's easier for YOU.
You're selfish, that's the top & bottom of it.
I have 1 child & live in Essex, United Kingdom
posted 9th May
Quoting Nicole B:“ Sweetheart, you had sex with a moron, deal with the consequences. Is lying an attribute you want your child to have? Hmmm.”
Yes I know. Im the moron I should of known.
I'm due December 7th, have 1 child & live in Ocala, Florida
posted 9th May
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:“ Wait let me correct you on this one. Number 1 me and the guy were together until he found some hoochie ... [snip!] ... after my son was born. Thats that, I dont feel that its greeat that Ivemade this decision but I feel that its the right thing.”
What exactly were you correcting me on there? LOL. I asked a question, I didn't make a statement.
You make no sense.
I have 1 child & live in Essex, United Kingdom
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