Finally.

Told my parents to back off on over helping me with my son. They have very much so. But I got kind of mad at them. I'm not allowed to have a Facebook, because my parents don't want my ex to contact me (even though I've blocked him) because I am fighting for full custody of him and he has not been in my sons life and has no interest. They don't want me to post pictures of my son so that my ex won't see him. But this morning I was on my sisters fb and noticed that my dad posted a picture of my son on his fb. And it was public so everyone can see it even if they aren't his friend. I called my mom downstairs and asked her about it because she commented on the picture (even though she's insistent on me not posting pictures) "our sunshine". She said that she had asked my dad if it was public and she said he said no. I asked her to have him take it down. I feel bad because I don't not want him to post pictures, but I want to be proud of my son too. I'm his mother I want to show my son off to my friends but they don't allow me to have a Facebook, or twitter, or even a cell phone. I haven't talked to my ex since October. I have no intention to and I'm fighting for full custody of him. Why would I waste thousands of dollars to protect my son and then go and post pictures of him that my ex can see. Am I wrong for feeling pissed off at them?

Dude, you're 21? And you're letting your parents dictate your social life?

How is it that you're 20...and you're not allowed to do things?

How do they not allow you to have a Facebook, twitter, or cell phone when you're 20? Do you have a job?

I don't understand why it's such a big deal. I mean I can totally understand with your situation with your dad doing it and getting mad but I don't understand why you can't have a facebook or twitter. I mean you have a kid for christ sakes. And what is a picture going to do?

Quoting ♕¡RedHauté!♕:" Dude, you're 21? And you're letting your parents dictate your social life?"

Seriously.
Grow up. Plain and simple.

YOU are fighting for custody, not your parents.

Put on your big girl panties. Youre and adult how can you not be "allowed" to have a fb

Quoting ☣iLL-Legal Alien:" How is it that you're 20...and you're not allowed to do things?"

  For real.

I'm 20 years old and I do what I want.  

i just read some of your other posts. I'm very glad you told your parents to back off. Now you need to be more independent, take matters into your own hands and raise this baby how you want to. As for the facebook stuff..if you want facebook...have a facebook..you are old enough..lol. And dont feel bad for telling your dad to take down the pictures..you are protecting your child. Everything from here on out is about your baby...your baby's safety and needs come first.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♕¡RedHauté!♕:</b>" Dude, you're 21? And you're letting your parents dictate your social life?"</blockquote>



Because I don't want to hear her bitch all damn day about my Facebook. That's pretty much the only reason why.

Quoting ✖Mandalorian:"   For real. I'm 20 years old and I do what I want.  "

lol
pshhhh....I've been doing what I want since I was 17  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer Casto:</b>" How do they not allow you to have a Facebook, twitter, or cell phone when you're 20? Do you have a job?"</blockquote>




I'm in school and I start working in Labor and Delivery in August. So right now they are financially supporting me and my son. I kind of feel like I have to do what they say because they've done so much for me money wise and they've kept a roof over my head while I get on my feet again. But it sucks I haven't had a Facebook or even a cell phone since October. I have no contact with my friends unless I run into them at stores or restaurants.

Quoting ☣iLL-Legal Alien:" lol pshhhh....I've been doing what I want since I was 17  "

 

Quoting ✖Mandalorian:"   "

lmfao

If your over 18 and even if you do live with them or dont then why do you listen.. I get they are probably helping you out. But you rule your life. If you blocked him he wont see anything anyway unless hes desperate enough to make a fake facebook. Come on.. Its your son why cant you post pictures? thats the most ridiculous thing ever! Maybe sit them down and tell them you want too. Its you and your sons life..
You choose and are in control not anybody else.