no love or affection :(

I feel so unloved lately he leaves me to do everything care for his son all the house work while he sleeps all day and plays stupid video games, i guess i miss the old him we were so happy and was always touching me holding me saying the sweetest things...i just don't know where the love has gone lately  

Sorry for any spelling mistakes or grammar im on my phone

im right there with you...for the past night he has had friends over playing video games and here i am on the computer...im about to go to bed b.c of how upset i am...but talk to him b.c me and so are about to have a talk about all this...i baby sit all day and take care of our daughter and clean and all that stuff a housewife and sahm should do...so if you need to talk feel free to pm me

For a long time i had the same problem. I felt like he didn't love me as uch anymore. I have learned,(Hosea thougg i didnt want to listen) that most men do not stay the same. They become too comfprtable. Scare him into thinking you really don't care anymore. Don't nag him. I tried. He pusged me away more. But, after a while, i just started acting like it didnt bother me and he issed the fact i didnt love on him anymore. We still have our problems of course but i have learned how to handle them smoothly.

Maybe that would work because at the moment i care way to much and is just stressing me and the baby out  

Quoting Mumma.to.be 13.10.12:" I feel so unloved lately he leaves me to do everything care for his son all the house work while he sleeps ... [snip!] ... things...i just don't know where the love has gone lately   Sorry for any spelling mistakes or grammar im on my phone"

I know how you feel but it's kind of for the opposite reason. Being pregnant has made me SUPER tired all the time, and I feel like all I do is sleep. I feel so bad for it too. My husband keeps telling me that he understands and that it's totally fine, "you're pregnant, it's ok". I just feel like we never get to do anything together anymore, and everytime we make plans I always end up getting sick   I miss the way things used to be...now I'm crying :/

Reverse psychology.....ignore him. If you pester him about it, he will push you away more...