Husband here- need advice (part 2)

She's just found porn on my ipod just then
she is saying that right now porn is unacceptable.. that she feels lie the most unnatractive girl in the world. She's not.. she is not listening

but it's just normal, right?

I understand her being angry about the dating profiles.. but porn? She has ALWAYS been ok with porn since the day i met her

I feltd like smurf when i found porn on my partners ipod i was feeling why does he need other girls when im here giving everything he wants and needs and its not good enough  

She's not okay with the porn, because you have completely and 100% broken her trust.

You posted a topic earlier that I saw. You messed around on your wife. Honestly, she needs to get rid of you. If you're not attracted to your wife and you'd rather look at porn you have problems there.

Well, if you have previously told her you:
1. do not look at porn
2. do not need/want to look at porn or have had prior issues with it, you're in the wrong. While I don't like porn, if she is just now saying you're not allowed to watch/look at it she: 1. is majorly controlling and 2. kidding herself.

you are ridiculous! I would have left you forever ago had i been her :/ Honestly for both your sake, just leave. Save her more heartbreak

Well, just went and looked at your previous post. You suck dude, seriously.

Yeah. Don't lie to or chat on your wife.

she needs to be your porn not what your watching....im going to assume from what i read u messed around on her...hubby did on me...still years later and we are still well i am still dealing with the issues that come with it...

Porn almost ruined my marriage. Some women are cool with it, some arent. I didnt read your other post, but all i can say is if it bothers her that much, then stop watching if you love her and care about her. Wouldnt it make you feel like smurf if she was masterbating to other guys? It would probably make you feel like you werent good enough for her

Quoting Sarah Curtsinger:" she needs to be your porn not what your watching....im going to assume from what i read u messed around ... [snip!] ... on her...hubby did on me...still years later and we are still well i am still dealing with the issues that come with it..."

             

I just don't get why it can go from being completely OK for 13 years to her being cross.. I WANT to work this out.. I LOVE her. I just think she's looing too much into it that's all

Quoting B-Banger:" I just don't get why it can go from being completely OK for 13 years to her being cross.. I WANT to work this out.. I LOVE her. I just think she's looing too much into it that's all"

I think you are ignorant, that is all

Quoting B-Banger:" I just don't get why it can go from being completely OK for 13 years to her being cross.. I WANT to work this out.. I LOVE her. I just think she's looing too much into it that's all"

It's not just the porn, moron.

Do you blame her ! Your the one who has made her feel not attractive enough for you and your winging you shouldn't of played her in the first place