Quoting Mommy of 2 + 1 angel:" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" I think you just need to have extra patience, ... [snip!] ... pay. They will help potty train her there and they have an OT on staff I just don't see how I'll afford the first few months."I am pretty sure the ADA has rules about offering free preschool to all qualifying special ed students ages 3-6. I used to work in one of those programs. I would look in your area to see where one is. They offer free bussing in my area, idk if that is a law thing or not everywhere. I had a hearing impaired child last year in my class who was not potty trained yet, and finally about a month after he turned 5 he was able to wear underwear. It does take extra time sometimes, so dont get discouraged.