re: I kinda wish there was a fourth option sometimes...

Quoting Jessica Compton:

bitch what the smurf are you talking about. I had an mc... And since you're judging, you only cried 2 weeks and over something that probably was like a clump of cells that's no different from a bad period. Try giving birth to a dead child a real baby. That took 3 mo.. You can't even try it. You have endured nothing in comparison

Quoting 20andneedtotlk1:" bitch what the smurf are you talking about. I had an mc... And since you're judging, you only cried ... [snip!] ... a bad period. Try giving birth to a dead child a real baby... You can't even try it. You have endured nothing in comparison"

ignore her. she's not allowed to say things like she did.

yea I put ignore I just couldn't let it slide to call my previous mc anything but mc. I just needed to correct that... I gtg

You can do adoption without the fathers permission just say that he isn't the baby's father and refuse dna test I had a friend who did that.

I understand that the situation is difficult, but I do not agree with lying about paternity so that she could give the child up for adoption.

It is completely dishonest and shows a blatant disregard for his emotions.

<blockquote><b>Quoting That-Girl:</b>" I understand that the situation is difficult, but I do not agree with lying about paternity so that she ... [snip!] ... so that she could give the child up for adoption. It is completely dishonest and shows a blatant disregard for his emotions."</blockquote>




It doesn't matter. The OP had the abortion