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...what's wrong with them?

No offense but if your BD has rights to your child as well, it's not entirely your decision to make.

Quoting Mama Beanz +2:" No offense but if your BD has rights to your child as well, it's not entirely your decision to make."

 

Quoting Rd.:" ...what's wrong with them?"

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I don't think it's wrong provided they've actually done something to warrant being cut out. I'm temporarily cutting my in laws out of my LO's life. If they behave themselves they can be in it again. There is nothing wrong with protecting your child. There is also nothing wrong with protecting yourself.

Quoting Mama Beanz +2:" No offense but if your BD has rights to your child as well, it's not entirely your decision to make."

I have full legal custody, we share physical custody.

Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" BD's father and mother were both coke addicts, and are currently pretty bad alcoholics. BD's Older ... [snip!] ... continue to show support. But ultimately I don't want them influencing my son's life. None of them graduated from high school. "

My father never graduated high school.
My mom is a recovered addict.
I did coke.
SO is a recovering alcoholic.

Seriously. You are judgmental as smurf.

Quoting Mrs. Dexter Morgan:" My father never graduated high school. My mom is a recovered addict. I did coke. SO is a recovering alcoholic. Seriously. You are judgmental as smurf."

I'm not judging them on past things, I'm judging them on how they live they're lives now. With honestly is unstable.

Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" BD's father and mother were both coke addicts, and are currently pretty bad alcoholics. BD's Older ... [snip!] ... continue to show support. But ultimately I don't want them influencing my son's life. None of them graduated from high school. "

Since when do you have to finish high school to be able to be around kids? you seem stupid, hahaha.

Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" I have full legal custody, we share physical custody. "

He can bring the child around whoever he wants on his visits...You have no say in that.

Go ahead and do it. But if you refuse him visitation he can take u to court for contempt of court.

Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" I'm not judging them on past things, I'm judging them on how they live they're lives now. With honestly is unstable. "

And you didn't know they were like this before having this kid???

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Quoting kate & tilly:" I don't think it's wrong provided they've actually done something to warrant being cut out. I'm temporarily ... [snip!] ... can be in it again. There is nothing wrong with protecting your child. There is also nothing wrong with protecting yourself."

i decided to keep my in laws from my kids because they admitted to me they hate me and they wont stop treating me like smurf until me and my husband are divorced so i talked to DH and he has no problem with me keeping our kids away from them. they are mean negative people and i dont want them around my kids. MIL likes to try and influence fights with me and my hubby and she tries to get in the middle of our arguments. so i told her if she wanted to keep trying to destroy my marriage i would destroy hers by telling her husband about her sexting some guy named "phillis" aka phil....yeah dumb bitch gotcha now!