re: No trust? (long)

Quoting jaydecher:“ child support isnt my issue he says he wants joint custody and wants to be in the babys life but the ... [snip!] ... over his rights....theyve been dating for 4days and when its born they will have only been dating 6months...he makes me sick”

Wow he sounds like a real asshole.. so basically he said if it works with her that he just wants to act like he doesn't have a child??

Quoting Eli's ♥ Mommy:“ Wow he sounds like a real asshole.. so basically he said if it works with her that he just wants to act like he doesn't have a child??”

basically...yes and its crap cuz he wanted this child....we were already engaged when i got pregnant so to me it was just all happening a little earlier then planned and then one day he decided he wasnt ready to grow up so he left....

Quoting jaydecher:“ basically...yes and its crap cuz he wanted this child....we were already engaged when i got pregnant ... [snip!] ... me it was just all happening a little earlier then planned and then one day he decided he wasnt ready to grow up so he left....”

Wow it must take a lot of self restraint to not punch him in the mouth.. lol.. was he cheating on you with his rebound?

Quoting Eli's ♥ Mommy:“ Wow it must take a lot of self restraint to not punch him in the mouth.. lol.. was he cheating on you with his rebound?”

it does take a lot but i dont want to lose contact with him cuz i want him to be able to see his baby. no its worse than cheating. we broke up. 2 days later he had a new gf and picks her over me and does everything she says he cheated on her with me but now says that shes his priority and he doesnt want to talk to me until the baby is born cuz its not his problem til then.....after 7months and being engaged and theyve only been dating 4days and shes a god to him

Quoting jaydecher:“ it does take a lot but i dont want to lose contact with him cuz i want him to be able to see his baby. ... [snip!] ... cuz its not his problem til then.....after 7months and being engaged and theyve only been dating 4days and shes a god to him”

Wow! All that will change when the baby's born.. he'll be around you and the baby more often and she'll be giving him hell for it.. then you'll really see where he stands.

Quoting Eli's ♥ Mommy:“ Wow! All that will change when the baby's born.. he'll be around you and the baby more often and she'll be giving him hell for it.. then you'll really see where he stands.”

yea he said he was gonna tell her that hes still in love with me and that he cheated on her and i said that was good but he had to know if she said he couldnt be around me that wasnt an option cuz he has a baby to think of but he just doesnt care he odesnt consider it his til its born until then its just a part of me and his "girlfriend" doesnt want him around me if he really plans on staying with her and not coming back to his family he can go to hell as far as im concerned

Quoting jaydecher:“ yea he said he was gonna tell her that hes still in love with me and that he cheated on her and i said ... [snip!] ... him around me if he really plans on staying with her and not coming back to his family he can go to hell as far as im concerned”

Yea.. it'll be his loss not yours.. and if he makes that decision I guarantee you it'll haunt him.

Quoting Eli's ♥ Mommy:“ Yea.. it'll be his loss not yours.. and if he makes that decision I guarantee you it'll haunt him.”

im hoping it will haunt him i changed my number and havent talked to him all day im hoping he'll start missing me now that im not talking to him and im hoping he'll have random thinks make him miss me like things we ate a lot or places we went a lot....im crossing my fingers...his heart missing me is my last hope cuz he obviously fell on his head so its no use to me lol

Quoting jaydecher:“ im hoping it will haunt him i changed my number and havent talked to him all day im hoping he'll start ... [snip!] ... lot....im crossing my fingers...his heart missing me is my last hope cuz he obviously fell on his head so its no use to me lol”

lol.. Maybe he will come around I always say you don't realize what you have until it's gone.. maybe he'll realize that too.