re: Young girls in and out of our neighbors house?! Weird?

Quoting Andrea's Momma:" It might be weird, but IMO it's none of your business. And it may be a little weird to spy on him, per say."

 

It sounds suspicious. Mention it to the mom.

Quoting EliciaK:" I would mention it to the girl's mom so maybe she can check it out. Only because she is going over there when they aren't home in hoochie mama clothes! lol"

yep...yesterday we were outside doing yardwork ...and she left like maybeeeeee 10 minutes before her dad got home...

I'm just scared I think...b/c what if it's nothing- or the mom gets mad ..but she said he was taking care of his cats- but we saw him- he wast here too...he's not disabled...he can feed his cats!?

Quoting DamonSalvatore=Addiction:" That guy sounds like a real creep and better safe then sorry, id inform the mom of the odd behavior. For all you know they could be a victim of lord know what with this guy"

That's what I am thinking...it's like I'd want someone to tell ME...I just do think it is my business b/c if she is doing something with him- and we saw the signs...I don't know- I just watch too much SVU I guess...It's like I feel like I'm on one of those shows what would you do...and I'm not generally the person that just lets something happen kwim? but you never know what IS happening and I could really piss some people off.

Quoting ♥Ericka✄:" yep...yesterday we were outside doing yardwork ...and she left like maybeeeeee 10 minutes before her ... [snip!] ... ..but she said he was taking care of his cats- but we saw him- he wast here too...he's not disabled...he can feed his cats!?"

Why would it take a couple of hours to take care of his cats? I wouldn't care if the mama got mad or not atleast it would be off your mind. If it is nothing then atleast you let someone know about it!

Quoting EliciaK:" Why would it take a couple of hours to take care of his cats? I wouldn't care if the mama got mad or not atleast it would be off your mind. If it is nothing then atleast you let someone know about it!"

that's what I'm saying..lol... especially while he was home..kwim? I don't know- I kind of know what I want to do- but I wanted to be sure it was right.

I'd mention it to the mother. It's sounds strange to me. No one hangs out with little girls for the conversation...I know, there is 8 kids here now, 4 are preteen girls...they are annoying as hell.

Quoting SemiCharmed:" I'd mention it to the mother. It's sounds strange to me. No one hangs out with little girls for the conversation...I know, there is 8 kids here now, 4 are preteen girls...they are annoying as hell."

LOLLLL I know I was... I just didn't want to start anything b/c I could be all wrong- and I feel like he knows our schedule too so if he gets mad- what would he do? kwim? ahhhh it's just all so messed up IMO...you know sometimes you just get feelings, and sometimes they are wrong- but I've said he was weird since we moved and met him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Ericka✄:</b>" That's what I am thinking...it's like I'd want someone to tell ME...I just do think it is my business ... [snip!] ... the person that just lets something happen kwim? but you never know what IS happening and I could really piss some people off."</blockquote>




That may happen but at least youre setting something that's odd too you and the mother really should know what's going on, how long the girl us there for, what she's wearing and ask its just not kosher in my eyes

Quoting DamonSalvatore=Addiction:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Ericka✄:</b>" That's what I am thinking...it's ... [snip!] ... really should know what's going on, how long the girl us there for, what she's wearing and ask its just not kosher in my eyes"

yeah I'll go over there and mention it- then it's out of my hands.

ericka I'd def talk to her mom... there is no reason for her to be there esp if her parents dont know... i mean thats just not normal for a teen girl dressing like that to be going to his house after they leave & coming home before they get home.. i'd bet money they dont know shes doing it...

never know he could be just a creep that likes to look at/do things to little girls..
but then again you never know...

i dressed like that around that age, but it wasnt for much older creepy men....

Quoting Andrea's Momma:" It might be weird, but IMO it's none of your business. And it may be a little weird to spy on him, per say."

Meh, You don't have to be spying on someone to see what's going on.
Op, It is a bit weird to me, I'd mention it.