re: Soon-to-be mommy at 17. (Venting)

TTC:

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about1734304.html

Quoting mamad00dl3:" I'm confused, where does it say she was TTC?"

In an old thread...

I help moms work from home if you can't GO get a job.... I understand employers don't really like to hire at that stage of pregnancy. So PM me if you want.

Sounds like you got what you asked for. Now deal with it. Your "man" needs to grow a pair.

Quoting HaileaNicole:" my boyfriend DOES WORK, but his mother takes all the money from his pay check. He doesnt make enough. ... [snip!] ... enough. She wants $600 for rent plus we pay her hydro bill, internet, and phone. and Im almost 7 months pregnant, i cant work."

I worked until the day before my water broke, is there a medical reason that you can't work.

I think you just need to grit and bare it for right now. It's probably not easy to find a job being 7 months pregnant, obviously. And if your unable to get assistance, you'll need to get a job asap after the baby is born. As a parent, things aren't always the way you expect them to be, they are a million times harder than you ever would expect them to be, but you have to do anything and everything you can even if it isn't exactly what you want to do. Your SO needs to man up and find a way to stay living where your living and save money also. Maybe you guys could live with your dad for a month so he can save some money up? Obviously, it is going to be hard and you may not have the things you want, but being 17 and pregnant you just have to do what you need to do.

I got pregnant at 20 while in college, and took off a week to have the baby. I worked throughout my pregnancy as well, because that's what I had to do. Someone asked above, is there a reason you can't work? Even babysitting would help out. Also, if your bf has a good job, you guys should just move out. His mom can figure out her own life without her son's help.

your an idiot. instead of trying to have a baby at 16 why dont you try to get a smurfing job and finish school. and there's absolutly no reason why you cant work, im almost 36 weeks pregnant and i work every day, your just lazy. if you really wanted a to make a good life for your child, you would get off your ass, find a job, and move out of there.

Quoting AbbyL&Corey+1:" your an idiot. instead of trying to have a baby at 16 why dont you try to get a smurfing job and finish ... [snip!] ... if you really wanted a to make a good life for your child, you would get off your ass, find a job, and move out of there. "

YOURE. Its YOURE.

On what grounds can you call someone else an idiot, when you cant even use the correct word?

lol €omg i forgot an e. you're a smurfing idiot too.

Quoting AbbyL&Corey+1:" lol €omg i forgot an e. you're a smurfing idiot too. "

You also forgot an apostrophe, and capitalization, apparently.

Quoting Philosoraptor.:" You also forgot an apostrophe, and capitalization, apparently."

The difference between "Lets eat Grandma" and "Lets eat, Grandma!"

no... thats not important.....  

Quoting Sam ☼:" The difference between "Lets eat Grandma" and "Lets eat, Grandma!" no... thats not important.....  "

Mmmm Grandma...

Quoting Philosoraptor.:" Mmmm Grandma..."

with ketchup.

on a condiment related note, Addison insisted on eating her Mexican lasagna last night with BBQ sauce and mayo *gag*

Quoting Sam ☼:" with ketchup. on a condiment related note, Addison insisted on eating her Mexican lasagna last night with BBQ sauce and mayo *gag*"

*Barf* 0.o