re: I'm so done! No one qoute me!

I see.... doesn't sound to me that your over reacting. I don't think that situation is good for you or the baby. Just my opinion though.

Best wishes to you. I need to go bed now. My little one will be getting up bright and early to play!  

oh, he's also not physically abusive what so ever but lately he's been kind of emotionlly abusive. Like when he gets mad at me now he calls me a bitch. He stopped going to my prenatal appts too, but I don't blame him they're like only 10 mins long and we never have any questions. I start lamaze(sp?) next week so I guess I'll wait to see if he goes...

Quoting *!*AntsMommy*!*:“ everyone isnt as strong as your putting yourself to be.. she doesnt have a place to go right now..I do agree that she needs to leave him..but sometimes it isnt that easy..”

I'm not "putting myself to be" anything. IAM strong, period.What? I'm supposed to apologizebecause I don't let men walk all over me or put up with drama? It's totally ridiculous to me when anyone, be it a man or a woman, put up with stupid things in any relationship and I don't mind saying it to someone who obviously is. Even when I was in high school I didn't put up with stupid things from people, be it from a BF, or a "friend". I'm 30 years old and I've been betrayed many times in my life by many people, and you know something? I didn't whine about it, try to get back at them, or anything like that. I didn't question them about why, or anything of that nature. I accept it and move on. And I NEVER put myself in any situation that could potentially become a disadvantage for ME. And for that I make NO apologoes for. As the saying goes, "My momma ain't raise no fool."

I'm not trying to start anymore drama, and I don't need an apology so good for you... and thanks for your advice that's all I'm looking for!

Back for a second, just wanted to make sure you didn't say anything else...

I'm glad that he isn't abusive.. as far as the appointments go my husband didn't go to half of them. Only the major appointments (like anatomy ultrasound.. ect..)

Just listen to your gut feeling.. if you think this is not a good situation for you to be in or your baby then you need to do what is right for you and your child.

Abuse is abuse, no matter what form it comes in and that is definately something you do not need at all. My suggestion to you would be to get it together, save some money and get out while you still have your sanity. Because at this point, he;s doing what he thinks he can get away with and essentially he is. There is not trust, so the relationship is in a non repairable state without some SERIOUS work that he obviously isn't too concerned with putting into it. You just have to decide what's more important.

Quoting TasharaJay:“ I'm not "putting myself to be" anything. IAM strong, period.What? I'm supposed to apologizebecause I ... [snip!] ... become a disadvantage for ME. And for that I make NO apologoes for. As the saying goes, "My momma ain't raise no fool."”

okay, well congrats to you.!  
everyone isn't like you..some people have to learn from there mistakes..and at some point she will as do everyone else at some point in there life...