Assuming you are the married one in the situation, would you keep the child?

I would keep it.

I would abort for sure.

I'd keep the child and fess up to my cheating. And I guess think long and hard about who I wanted to be with.

I would probably abort. I am expecting my second kid now and I don't want anymore.

well I wouldnt do aborion, but I might give it up for adoption or something. I watched one of those pregnancy shows and this women was pregnant after her and her husband waited for years to conceive, and she had had an affair. She knew the baby wasnt his but never told him, and the baby came out black (they were asian). I guess they gave the baby up for adoption because when she went to go to the guys house his wife answered the door and freaked out and he pretended he didnt know her and everything. Messed up smurf.

I'd keep it, to damn hard to get pregnant to just abort because I decided to be an idiot. My husband would more than likely leave either way.

Whatever I wanted to do in that situation.. I dont know what I would do because I havent been in that situation.

Quoting Goobs Mom [29]:" I would probably abort. I am expecting my second kid now and I don't want anymore."

So are you aborting based on the fact you dont want any more kids? OR based on the fact its not your husband's child?

I would say keep, but then again I can't say for sure unless I was in that situation

if you can't do the time, don't do the crime!

Quoting lolajessup:" well I wouldnt do aborion, but I might give it up for adoption or something. I watched one of those pregnancy ... [snip!] ... to the guys house his wife answered the door and freaked out and he pretended he didnt know her and everything. Messed up smurf."

Thats very smurfed up....smh.

Quoting MichelleCampbell:" if you can't do the time, don't do the crime! "

OK??? lol....

Quoting MichelleCampbell:" if you can't do the time, don't do the crime! "

Having sex is not a crime and a baby is not a punishment.  

Quoting MichelleCampbell:" if you can't do the time, don't do the crime! "

I think you said it best!