Quoting FroggysMommy:" If it was me right now I'd probably abort, well actually I KNOW I'd abort. It'd be unfair to keep a child. ... [snip!] ... unfair to keep a child. My SO cheated on his ex and it resulted in a pregnancy... they put the child up for adoption though."
The part where you say "It'd be unfair to keep a child", are you referring to your situation specifically? Or in general, If a woman has an affair and gets pregnant, it would be unfair to keep the child? Because I DID have an affair when I was in a bad marriage, I DID get pregnant, I had the baby (he will be 2 in September) and I'm married to his father and have a 6 month old son as well. In my situation, it was right.