If it was me right now I'd probably abort, well actually I KNOW I'd abort. It'd be unfair to keep a child.

My SO cheated on his ex and it resulted in a pregnancy... they put the child up for adoption though.

Quoting FroggysMommy:" If it was me right now I'd probably abort, well actually I KNOW I'd abort. It'd be unfair to keep a child. ... [snip!] ... unfair to keep a child. My SO cheated on his ex and it resulted in a pregnancy... they put the child up for adoption though."

The part where you say "It'd be unfair to keep a child", are you referring to your situation specifically? Or in general, If a woman has an affair and gets pregnant, it would be unfair to keep the child? Because I DID have an affair when I was in a bad marriage, I DID get pregnant, I had the baby (he will be 2 in September) and I'm married to his father and have a 6 month old son as well. In my situation, it was right.

Quoting Stephanie Onyembi:" The part where you say "It'd be unfair to keep a child", are you referring to your situation specifically? ... [snip!] ... (he will be 2 in September) and I'm married to his father and have a 6 month old son as well. In my situation, it was right."

She is talking about for her... What you did in your situation is different from what she would do.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" She is talking about for her... What you did in your situation is different from what she would do."

Ok that's what I was wondering cuz she didn't really specify. Just said it would be unfair.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" She is talking about for her... What you did in your situation is different from what she would do."

This. Thats why I said "If it was me right now I'd probably abort, well actually I KNOW I'd abort. It'd be unfair to keep a child."

I am on medication that would hurt a child and health wise I just couldnt do it.