re: Cheating....

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ lol honesty dont mean nothing so sense he is being honest and tellin u who he is sleeping with it makes ... [snip!] ... felt like he was cheating on his new gf ...that dosnt sound like he cares to much for you or your feelings think about that ?”

if he really cared about his "girlfriend" he wouldnt have cheated on her. this isnt about sex..this entire post isnt about sex...we might be pregnant but we're not stupid...we're not like oh he wont fuck me anymore what will i ever do....we dont care about the sex ew care about the love

Quoting jaydecher:“ idc if i was with my ex for 7min dont you dare call him a losr and dont you dare imply that im not thinking about my child”

My bad i ment 7 months,ill call him a loser because that is what he sounds like ...n what makes you think i was talking about your man i was talking about hers you aint thinking about your child if your just worried about getting a man back obviously dosnt want u.   That is not rocket science your just proving my point your young minded both of yall are boo hoing over someone who isn't with you for what ever reasonwhich is sad.I feel bad for yall but not so bad that yall dont need to hear tha truth. it hurts dont it do u want a pretty lie or the ugly truth ok here it goes

PRETTY LIE : dont give up hope just because they have other gfs that dosnt mean any thing keep up hope he really does love you

UGLY TRUTH: if a man cares he won't cheat point blank men are horny like i said and if they can't control that now what n the fuck makes you think they can control it later   ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER they just get better at hiding it from you


concludes my lesson for today  have a great day

Everytime we have ever broken up, he's told me he isn't gonna cheat on her if he hasa new girlfriend. But he does, and I know this is no different. And it does make me feel better to know that he'll at least tell me the truth even if it hurts.

Quoting jaydecher:“ if he really cared about his "girlfriend" he wouldnt have cheated on her. this isnt about sex..this ... [snip!] ... not stupid...we're not like oh he wont fuck me anymore what will i ever do....we dont care about the sex ew care about the love”

IT IS ABOUT SEX IF HE LOVED HER WOULD JUST BE WITH HER WHAT PART OF THAT DO YOU NOT GET i dont know what world you live in but in the real world when someone is sleeping with 2 people ...its about sex WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE THEY ARE THE ONLY ONE YOU WANT  

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ Everytime we have ever broken up, he's told me he isn't gonna cheat on her if he hasa new girlfriend. ... [snip!] ... I know this is no different. And it does make me feel better to know that he'll at least tell me the truth even if it hurts.”

.....he is stringing you along so what if he tells you he isn't gonna cheat on them...man not to sound like a bitch but if he loves you as much as you say he does why aint yall together if a man truly and deeply loves you he would do any thing to see and make you happy not fuck other females ?? have you asked yourself that question

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ My bad i ment 7 months,ill call him a loser because that is what he sounds like ...n what makes you ... [snip!] ... ALWAYS A CHEATER they just get better at hiding it from you concludes my lesson for today  have a great day ”

you dont know me or the love of my life so you cant really say he obviously doesnt want me can you...i pushed him away and some skank pretending to be nice came around that doesnt make him a loser that makes me a dumbass

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ IT IS ABOUT SEX IF HE LOVED HER WOULD JUST BE WITH HER WHAT PART OF THAT DO YOU NOT GET i dont know ... [snip!] ... real world when someone is sleeping with 2 people ...its about sex WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE THEY ARE THE ONLY ONE YOU WANT  ”

hahahah yea in the girl's real world...guys are different they dont define love by commitment unless they feel like it so i guess all guys are losers....guys are stupid...they make millions and millions of mistakes us girls have to make the best of it and do the best we can to find a good one that we love...if we had a guy that acted like a girl he'd break our hearts anyway when he announced he was GAY

Quoting jaydecher:“ you dont know me or the love of my life so you cant really say he obviously doesnt want me can you...i ... [snip!] ... you...i pushed him away and some skank pretending to be nice came around that doesnt make him a loser that makes me a dumbass”

how does that make you a dumbass ?

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ how does that make you a dumbass ?”

i pushed him away and didnt know what i was losing til he was gone i was hormonal...it was my bad and im not a bad mother for missing the love of my life. im not chasing him down 24/7 im sitting at home rubbing my stomache telling my child everythings gonna work out and doing what im supposed to for my child me missing him and wanting him back doesnt make me a bad mom i DO think about my child first no god is first and then my child and then the love of my life if he said i had to get an abortion to get him back or give up my baby( which he'd never do) but if he did id tell him to go fuck off

Quoting jaydecher:“ hahahah yea in the girl's real world...guys are different they dont define love by commitment unless ... [snip!] ... find a good one that we love...if we had a guy that acted like a girl he'd break our hearts anyway when he announced he was GAY”

....how many mistakes does it take for you to leave someone have you ever heard that saying " fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me for letting you fool me again " so if u get back with a cheater and he does it again my point is you have no one to blame but yourself because he has done it b4

Quoting jaydecher:“ i pushed him away and didnt know what i was losing til he was gone i was hormonal...it was my bad and ... [snip!] ... said i had to get an abortion to get him back or give up my baby( which he'd never do) but if he did id tell him to go fuck off”

i didn't say you cant miss him or want him back i would actually think it would be wierd for you not to miss him i just think its pointless to chase after someone who cheats regaurdless and your right god is 1st then your child and is he really the love of your life if he is with someone else ?

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ i didn't say you cant miss him or want him back i would actually think it would be wierd for you not ... [snip!] ... regaurdless and your right god is 1st then your child and is he really the love of your life if he is with someone else ?”

hes with someone else but still openly says he loves me and she knows he does ive just hurt him a lot and he didnt want to get hurt anymore so right now im proving to him that i wont hurt him ever again not really the same as chasing...i text him everyday so he knows that i love him and that im here for him if he wants to come back. i want him to be happy im not gonna try to force him to be with me and yea its wrong that hes with her but i have faith that he'll realize that...its trial and error...if you love someone you let them make mistakes and hope in the end they choose whats right and thats what im doing

Quoting jaydecher:“ hes with someone else but still openly says he loves me and she knows he does ive just hurt him a lot ... [snip!] ... and error...if you love someone you let them make mistakes and hope in the end they choose whats right and thats what im doing”

how is it wrong that he is with her if u broke up with him then he got with her it aint wrong if he cheated then he is wrong

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ how is it wrong that he is with her if u broke up with him then he got with her it aint wrong if he cheated then he is wrong”

cuzi have his baby and he got a new girl in 2 days!!!!

Quoting jaydecher:“ cuzi have his baby and he got a new girl in 2 days!!!!”

then that is showing he dont care even if u have a mans baby that wont make him stay with u or repsect you lol u gotta think about that