re: Cheating....

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ ive been like that.. every girl pretty much has no matter what they say.. but honestly sometimes we see ... [snip!] ... it was all over i got a rude awakening that shocked me and now after i have my son and family he tries coming back in my life”

sadly that should have made me be like thats right move on but it just made me like yay he might come back lol i know im crazy i just love him so damn much i couldnt imagine myself with anyone else hes one of those people that when i first saw him time really did slow down and i just knew without saying a word to him...and hes not even that good looking my heart just told me he was the one

Quoting jaydecher:“ sadly that should have made me be like thats right move on but it just made me like yay he might come ... [snip!] ... down and i just knew without saying a word to him...and hes not even that good looking my heart just told me he was the one”

like i said i was that way.. my ex would come over and i'd be head over heels.. it because we want what we dont have, its human nature. How long were you eith him?

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ like i said i was that way.. my ex would come over and i'd be head over heels.. it because we want what we dont have, its human nature. How long were you eith him?”

we were together 7months but engaged at 2months everything went super fast but we spent every waking moment together it felt like we'd been together for years

Quoting jaydecher:“ we were together 7months but engaged at 2months everything went super fast but we spent every waking moment together it felt like we'd been together for years”

see thats like just coming out of the lust stage, im a dramatic person and ASK for hurt from men even my current, we were so happy for awhile than constant fights, we still doit even tonight he told my dad he'd knock him out pure drama but something about him i cant pin point i just dont want him o go, we love assholes, yet when we havee a good devoted guy we push them away. I guess its the lack of drama idk

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ see thats like just coming out of the lust stage, im a dramatic person and ASK for hurt from men even ... [snip!] ... dont want him o go, we love assholes, yet when we havee a good devoted guy we push them away. I guess its the lack of drama idk”

oh trust me it wasnt lust. we just all need time machines

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ Thanks for being understanding. I do know what I was doing is wrong b/c I wouldn't want someone in the ... [snip!] ... I'm not ready to let my goal of us being a family go. I am just gonna wait until the baby gets here and hope for the best.”

You gotta be shittin me  why are you chasin after some dick thats doin you wrong.Once again your worryin about yourself talking abour MY GOAL, it aint about u its about your child he is gonna keep cheating on you. Don't give that he loves me BS because if he loved you he would be with you am i right ? what is it going to take for you to see he aint shit does he need to have a child with that lady to or do u prefer herpes  

I don't prefer either. My child deserves a family and that's what I want it to have.A mama and daddy who are together and who love each other. The stop sleeping with him I can deal with but being with out him for the rest of my life is not going to work. I have faith in him. We've had similar situations and I am always the one in the end. Shes temporary so I can't let her bother me. He's mad at me. He's more than mad and he has every right to be because of what I did to him but he's gonna have to get over it. He's forgiven me many times for things I've assumed and taken action for that wasn't even true. I know I need to stop sleeping with him. I know he's getting his cake and eating it too, but I am not ready to let him go.

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I don't prefer either. My child deserves a family and that's what I want it to have.A mama and daddy ... [snip!] ... I know I need to stop sleeping with him. I know he's getting his cake and eating it too, but I am not ready to let him go.”

i 100% agree if i have a 2% chance of having a perfect little family than im going for it. its not me being selfish or running after a "loser" its whats best for me and you and our babies

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I don't prefer either. My child deserves a family and that's what I want it to have.A mama and daddy ... [snip!] ... I know I need to stop sleeping with him. I know he's getting his cake and eating it too, but I am not ready to let him go.”

Then you have no one but youself to blame because your just pussy to him guys are horny they wake up horny they go to bed horny. Ok say yall do get back togetha he is just going to cheat on you because your letting him smh this is sad that your judment is that clouded that your not letting him go because of your selfishness. You act like you can't raise your child on your own you can be the babys momma and daddy idk who told yall young girls that you need a man or that you NEED a two parentfamily to succesfuly raise a child .but who ever did needs to be shot in the face then again he isn't a man because if he was he would be with u and you wouldn't have posted this thread asking for advice. you really need to put your child 1st n stop worrying about yourself because you going to hurt the baby in the long run chasin a man who obviously dosn't wanna be with you i hate to say this but your gonna be one of those females who gets cheated on n stays " because of the kids..code for your own selfish feelings "...this may have sounded harsh but life is harsh get used to it

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ Then you have no one but youself to blame because your just pussy to him guys are horny they wake up ... [snip!] ... " because of the kids..code for your own selfish feelings "...this may have sounded harsh but life is harsh get used to it”

whoa hold ourself she didnt say she COULDNT raise her child alone she said if she doesnt have to she doesnt want to cuz she and her bab both deserve a famil. nd what is up with you people saying its just sex....the were engaged and together for years......theres feelings behind it!!!

Quoting jaydecher:“ i 100% agree if i have a 2% chance of having a perfect little family than im going for it. its not me being selfish or running after a "loser" its whats best for me and you and our babies”

Just because your with someone for 7 months that dont mean shit if you woulda said 7 years then id say MAYBE fight for him but yall are both very young minded....and are only worrying about yourselves not your children.Your kids want to see you happy not chasin after a loser   what kind of example are you setting for your kids  

Quoting jaydecher:“ whoa hold ourself she didnt say she COULDNT raise her child alone she said if she doesnt have to she ... [snip!] ... nd what is up with you people saying its just sex....the were engaged and together for years......theres feelings behind it!!!”

do u not understand that putting a ring on someones finger dont mean shit. If he really loved her they would be together and she wouldnt have posted this thread am i right or wrong ?and she is very much acting like she can't do it all on her own on all 7 pages all i could see was i need him i love him blah blah blah ok but your child needs you instead of stressin over asorry asss lil boy u need to be worrying about how to bring your child in this world in a non stressful enviornment thats just selfish point blank.

Iknow that I can raise my child on my own, if he doesn't come back I will have no choice than to do it. I do care about my child and the child is number one. I want the best for my child, and even if he is not with me, I know he'll be in my child's life. I'd rather the two of us try and work it out than us be apart. I do love him and I feel like I need him. He's always been honest with me about who he's slept with or who he's sleeping with.

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ do u not understand that putting a ring on someones finger dont mean shit. If he really loved her they ... [snip!] ... need to be worrying about how to bring your child in this world in a non stressful enviornment thats just selfish point blank.”

idc if i was with my ex for 7min dont you dare call him a losr and dont you dare imply that im not thinking about my child

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ Iknow that I can raise my child on my own, if he doesn't come back I will have no choice than to do it. ... [snip!] ... I do love him and I feel like I need him. He's always been honest with me about who he's slept with or who he's sleeping with.”

lol honesty dont mean nothing so sense he is being honest and tellin u who he is sleeping with it makes you feel better ?? it shouldn't just like you whouldnt be holding your breath for him to come back if he told u he wanted to stop sleeping with u because he felt like he was cheating on his new gf ...that dosnt sound like he cares to much for you or your feelings think about that ?