re: Cheating....

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ or so you assume..”

hahahahahahahahahaha noooooooooooo me and him spent every sex of every day together for 7months if he wasnt with me he was at work or school and i know he was there cuz i had his car while he was there and he spent weekends at my house....you are the one assuming

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Quoting jaydecher:“ hahahahahahahahahaha noooooooooooo me and him spent every sex of every day together for 7months if ... [snip!] ... and i know he was there cuz i had his car while he was there and he spent weekends at my house....you are the one assuming”

trust me, ive lived with someone i thought i was with 24/7... they find a way

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ trust me, ive lived with someone i thought i was with 24/7... they find a way”

wtf you dont even know me like that...you dont know what we went through....no one wanted us together from day one and we went through a lot of shit trust me we didnt take a moment for granted if he wasnt completely devoted he would have ended it way sooner like when he was getting grounded for being 2min late for curfew just cuz his parents wanted us to break up that bad he spent every moment with me i know that for a FACT we took a break for 2weeks and he fucked his ex and couldnt even keep it up and called me balling and drove to my house drunk cuz he didnt want to be there anymore and that didnt come from him it came from his bestfriend that hates me

Quoting jaydecher:“ wtf you dont even know me like that...you dont know what we went through....no one wanted us together ... [snip!] ... to my house drunk cuz he didnt want to be there anymore and that didnt come from him it came from his bestfriend that hates me”

umm so if your so sure.. why are you so defensive?

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ umm so if your so sure.. why are you so defensive?”

im defensive cuz youve never met me before or talked to me before and youre gonna sit here like you have every piece of evidence in the world that my boyfriend cheated on me and thats bull....my boyfriend was perfect to me he was here everyday rubbing my back brinking me flowers and i felt trapped cuz i wasnt ready to get married and i pushed him away until he finally left and now im trying to get him back and im not gonna let you assume hes a bad guy....im defensive cuz im defending the man i love!

Quoting jaydecher:“ im defensive cuz youve never met me before or talked to me before and youre gonna sit here like you ... [snip!] ... now im trying to get him back and im not gonna let you assume hes a bad guy....im defensive cuz im defending the man i love!”

lol i only said possiblities.. how the hell would i know his acts? Im going by stats and common girl fantasies.. stats say if a man cheats once.. he'll doit again or already has, you say you are 100% but there are no 100% with men..

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ lol i only said possiblities.. how the hell would i know his acts? Im going by stats and common girl ... [snip!] ... stats say if a man cheats once.. he'll doit again or already has, you say you are 100% but there are no 100% with men..”

you said im just assuming he didnt. i dont have a job and i dont go to school trust me i had no life but him i knew where he was and what he was doing he was good to me and im having a really hard time letting him go not because im madly in love with a dick but because he did treat me so perfectly and i pushed him away

Quoting jaydecher:“ you said im just assuming he didnt. i dont have a job and i dont go to school trust me i had no life ... [snip!] ... time letting him go not because im madly in love with a dick but because he did treat me so perfectly and i pushed him away”

ook minus the fantasy even if he was the 'perfect guy' than if he really loves you he'll come back without you sleeping with him.. getting clingy is one thing guys dislike

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ ook minus the fantasy even if he was the 'perfect guy' than if he really loves you he'll come back without you sleeping with him.. getting clingy is one thing guys dislike”

im not sleeping with him anymore it wasnt a fantasy...we fought. we fought a lot but i always knew he loved me and he always showed he loved me. and im trying to not be clingy i just know its my fault hes gone and i just wish there was something i could do to take it back

Quoting jaydecher:“ im not sleeping with him anymore it wasnt a fantasy...we fought. we fought a lot but i always knew he ... [snip!] ... and im trying to not be clingy i just know its my fault hes gone and i just wish there was something i could do to take it back”

well if you dont mind me asking what did you do that you feel drove him away *i promise not to be snotty but i am honest*

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ well if you dont mind me asking what did you do that you feel drove him away *i promise not to be snotty but i am honest*”

i just turned 18 band hes 6months younger than me and we've been engaged for months but 18was this whole big thing and i just felt so trapped so i told him i didnt want to be with him and i didnt know what i was losing until he was gone and sure he shouldnt have got someone new that fast but i shouldnt have said the things i did...i was hormonal and confused and i regret it everyday. the actual event was i was sick and had a headache and he was complaining via text cuz he wanted to come over and take care of me and i just wanted to sleep and i had a headache so he was getting on my nerves so i told him it was over its the biggest mistake ive ever made i broke his heart and now he doesnt trust me not to do it again so he found someone new

Quoting jaydecher:“ i just turned 18 band hes 6months younger than me and we've been engaged for months but 18was this whole ... [snip!] ... its the biggest mistake ive ever made i broke his heart and now he doesnt trust me not to do it again so he found someone new”

i see.. i remember i used to 'test' guys in my fucked up mind on wether they really cared by saying i wanted to break up.. most would try and come back instantly but after awhile they get sick of it and move on so i learned not to do that best thing you can do is be honest about how you feel, why you did what you did and talk, if he doesn't want any of it than so be it, if he does but is apprehensive than suggest friends for awhile to rebuild the trust

Quoting Ms.Melody:“ i see.. i remember i used to 'test' guys in my fucked up mind on wether they really cared by saying i ... [snip!] ... if he doesn't want any of it than so be it, if he does but is apprehensive than suggest friends for awhile to rebuild the trust”

im sorry i was so hostile i just spend every sec of everyday thinking about him i'd die for him and when people attack him i just go crazy off on them hes my life i would never let anyone talk about him like that

Quoting jaydecher:“ im sorry i was so hostile i just spend every sec of everyday thinking about him i'd die for him and ... [snip!] ... for him and when people attack him i just go crazy off on them hes my life i would never let anyone talk about him like that”

ive been like that.. every girl pretty much has no matter what they say.. but honestly sometimes we see men for what we want them to be not what they are, i was with my ex for two years and loved him like crazy and thought he was a god sent but then when it was all over i got a rude awakening that shocked me and now after i have my son and family he tries coming back in my life