re: Cheating....

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I know I should have left him a long time ago but I almost feel like I'm not strong enough to do that. ... [snip!] ... say you want to try so keep trying. I don't predict the future". He's going to Iraq in Oct. and I just hope that he grows up.”

trust me ive been there i was with a guy for 2 years named jason and he all of a sudden wanted to break up.. yet he would still come around uninvited. Now for a few months i would give in everytime with the hope he'd come back.. wrong way to go about it. I stopped when i met jamie*my current bf and my sons father* well jason didnt like me saying no so he got mad when he found out i was pregnant, but low and behold who messaged me out of the blue.. men want what they can't have not what is easily accessible

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ if your strong enough to carry a baby for 9 months and labor ,your stong enough to do any thing seriously ... [snip!] ... it because your not only gonna hurt youself your gonna be showing your kids its ok to be with someone who treats you like shit.”

i agree

Quoting Swingate:“ I agree...There are actually some decent men out there who will worship the ground you walk on, and ... [snip!] ... that and assume that they can use you and abuse you, and no woman should compromise her dignity and self worth for a "man"...”

right. it took me years to learn this lesson and after bad relationship after seriously abusive relationships after pointless going no where relationships i finally figured out you have to love and respect yourself before anyone else will. (personally i dont think this guy ever will, if he sees you having love and respect for yourself he will just get jealous and try to beat it back out of you - figurativly speaking) be stronger than him and you will attract a strong man who honestly will love and respect you.

I just wonder if anyone out there will ever want me after I have this baby. I think it's b/c I have been with him for so long, I don't even know what its like to be with someone else or how to go about a new realtionship. I know I need to do something and fast cause I'm tired of being second to someone who is twice my age and half the woman.

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I just wonder if anyone out there will ever want me after I have this baby. I think it's b/c I have been ... [snip!] ... I know I need to do something and fast cause I'm tired of being second to someone who is twice my age and half the woman.”

u need some you time u need to be worried bout rasing your child not finding another man you need to get yo priorites st8 seriously im not that much older then you in age but i am wiser then you get your shit st8 b4 you even think about gettin wit someone else love yourself how u gonna expect a man to love you if you dont love you..after having my 1st born i didn't have sex 2 years because i was focusing on her your child should be your priority not your feelings there will be time for that later smh

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I just wonder if anyone out there will ever want me after I have this baby. I think it's b/c I have been ... [snip!] ... I know I need to do something and fast cause I'm tired of being second to someone who is twice my age and half the woman.”

There is so meny women out there even ones this site who have kids and are with differant men you just need to find the right one and one who will respect you and your child

Quoting .:SHELLE:.:“ u need some you time u need to be worried bout rasing your child not finding another man you need to ... [snip!] ... years because i was focusing on her your child should be your priority not your feelings there will be time for that later smh”

i second this, you need to not worry about relationships, you have a child now, EVERYTHING COMES SECOND TO THE WELLBEING OF YOUR CHILD, sorry for yelling

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ so my fiance` ended it a little while ago and now he's dating a woman twice my age. And this baby was ... [snip!] ... want to cheat. But we have slept together twice since he said that. Do you think what we are doing is wrong? Should I stop?”

you should stop sleeping with him...
i would not let him come back if i were you,
and when your baby is born take his cheating ass to court and get child support.

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ so my fiance` ended it a little while ago and now he's dating a woman twice my age. And this baby was ... [snip!] ... want to cheat. But we have slept together twice since he said that. Do you think what we are doing is wrong? Should I stop?”

Yeah, I'd stop...and I wouldn't give him another chance...even if it meant letting the old lady have him.

yea, I think i'm just going to have to lose. I can't win for anything. Someway, somehow it'll work out.

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ yea, I think i'm just going to have to lose. I can't win for anything. Someway, somehow it'll work out

....im glad your listining to the advice every one gave you its real advice not only tryin to save you but your child from heartache

yea, I know what I have to do but its just hard. I just haven't found the strengh to leave yet but it's gotta start someday. I think the only way to really show him that I don't need him is to leave. Thanks for all the tough love mamas! 

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ so my fiance` ended it a little while ago and now he's dating a woman twice my age. And this baby was ... [snip!] ... want to cheat. But we have slept together twice since he said that. Do you think what we are doing is wrong? Should I stop?”

you should probably stop but i know how hard it is....i mean im going through the same thing....i dont care about his stupid replacement gf and im still in love with him so why the hell should i stop making love with the person i love?! butyou should...and i did. i think i did it cuz i think itll make him miss me after a while...im not sure why i stopped...i guess im just trying everything to make him happy

If he left you & is dating another woman . . than yes you should stop .. . if he isn't or hasn't come back to you accept it & move on . . he doesn't want to be with you . . you don't want to be known as a homewreaker . .
Have a little respect for yourself & your child . . Move on . .
If he will cheat on her with you than he willcheat on you with someone else ..

Quoting Made In Italy♥:“ If he left you & is dating another woman . . than yes you should stop .. . if he isn't or hasn't ... [snip!] ... for yourself & your child . . Move on . . If he will cheat on her with you than he willcheat on you with someone else ..”

thats a little harsh...youre obviously still in a relationship with the father of your child or very very very bitter