re: Cheating....

Quoting I ♥ Gavin Lennox:“ ...and the baby? ”

Exactly! You and baby.. sorry.

Quoting I ♥ Gavin Lennox:“ ...and the baby? ”

Yea, I ask him about that all the time. And I believe he is using condoms because before he ever started sleeping with me again, he said he didn't trust her like that. I got checked out the other day and everything was alright.

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ Yea, I ask him about that all the time. And I believe he is using condoms because before he ever ... [snip!] ... sleeping with me again, he said he didn't trust her like that. I got checked out the other day and everything was alright.”

please
just
stop

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I don't know, I feel like as long as I am in the middle of thier realtionship it's ok but she's in ... [snip!] ... our "space" periods we sleep together and in the end the third party ends up hurt. I just hope that things work out some way.”

You're carrying his baby I don't see how you could get any more in the middle of their "relationship"...And yes, you need to stop sleeping with him because he's having his cake and eating it too...Plus he could give you an STD and that would be horrible for you and the baby...So let go and let God, everything happens for a reason, and in the end you will see that he is a scum bag for dragging you along in his little games...Hope it all works out for you...

How can you have such little self-respect? I know that being young has a lot to do with it, but geez... His philosophy is, "Why buy the cow, when I can get the milk for free?"

Being in a successful relationship requires a lot more than sexual compatability. It first and foremost requires mutual respect and trust. Two things obviously lacking between the two of you.

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I don't know, I feel like as long as I am in the middle of thier realtionship it's ok but she's in ... [snip!] ... our "space" periods we sleep together and in the end the third party ends up hurt. I just hope that things work out some way.”

sounds like he jus likes to fuck, when you care about someone they should be tha only one u want. He aint worth yo time and if he really cared he wouldn't be doin this to you, you obviously still have feelings for him and sounds to me like he jus wants sex if he cant jus be with 1 person ...do yall both a favor n end it IMO

Personally I would hault seeing him all together.. unless it has something to do with your child. Here's the thing I've learned. You can end up with something you don't want and you pray they have medication for. If he's sleeping with you, what makes you think he isn't sleeping with other women??

I don't want to sound mean , BUT how stupid can you be!! Just stop sleeping with him cause I mean who knows how many other females he is sleeping with. What if you get something? Of course you will feel for him and he will feel for you, yall have a baby together. But really have some respect and class. Find you a man who will only be with you and only you and will respect you as a women. Cause all of ex is doing is just disrespecting you nasty. You seem too beautiful to even have a man treat you like that. Besides in a way all you are doing is holding onto him and sooner or later you will end up hurt! Just let him go! Yeah it will be hard, but it will be for he best!

believe it or not there are men out there that wont treat you badly, you just have to give up trying to be with the ones who will. this guy is- you and your child deserve better, move on- dont look back and the right one will come along eventually.

I can't believe you are even asking for advice on this. Have some respect for yourself and tell that asshole where to shove it. I wouldn't ever accept someone back after they'd been sleepin with around with another woman!

You are pregnant with his baby. If he doesn't have enough respect for you now then he never will. Move on.

I know I should have left him a long time ago but I almost feel like I'm not strong enough to do that. Everytime, I try, I end up going back to him before he even has the chance to miss me. I feel like there is no one else out there. And all of you are right. I have lost respect for myself. I give him ALL of me and leave nothing for myself. I do everything for him and I always ask him why isnt she doing this for you? and he'll say " you say you want to try so keep trying. I don't predict the future". He's going to Iraq in Oct. and I just hope that he grows up.

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ Yea, I ask him about that all the time. And I believe he is using condoms because before he ever ... [snip!] ... sleeping with me again, he said he didn't trust her like that. I got checked out the other day and everything was alright.”

Forget the safe sex issue. He's F***ing another woman! He evidentally has no respect for you.

Sure, maybe he'll come back to you when he gets bored with her, but then who would want someone that treats you like that!

Quoting typeintp:“ believe it or not there are men out there that wont treat you badly, you just have to give up trying ... [snip!] ... who will. this guy is- you and your child deserve better, move on- dont look back and the right one will come along eventually.”

I agree...There are actually some decent men out there who will worship the ground you walk on, and will respect you and your child no matter what...But if you treat yourself this way then other people will see that and assume that they can use you and abuse you, and no woman should compromise her dignity and self worth for a "man"...

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I know I should have left him a long time ago but I almost feel like I'm not strong enough to do that. ... [snip!] ... say you want to try so keep trying. I don't predict the future". He's going to Iraq in Oct. and I just hope that he grows up.”

well to be real its not about you no more you are having a baby and you dont want to loss it just b~cuz the babys father gave you a STD men lie so he could of told you what you wanted to hear like i told you in the comment i lost my child do to a STD i never new i had and gave it to my babys father becuse i didnt no my ex was cheating so try to leave your sex life with him out of your friendship with him

Quoting Praying for a miracle.:“ I know I should have left him a long time ago but I almost feel like I'm not strong enough to do that. ... [snip!] ... say you want to try so keep trying. I don't predict the future". He's going to Iraq in Oct. and I just hope that he grows up.”

if your strong enough to carry a baby for 9 months and labor ,your stong enough to do any thing seriously ....im a single mother of a 3 yr old and going to be a single mother to the one im carrying ..IM DOING THIS BY MYSELF NO HELP FROM NO MAN I LIVE ON MY OWN .i kicked my bf out because he couldnt keep his dick in his pants, i put my kids 1st fuck my feelings it aint about you any more when you have kids. Not to sound like a bitch but you have to grow up as much as he does YOU CAN DO BAD ALL BY YOURSELF YOU DONT NEED A LIL ASS BOY BRINGIN YOU DOWN just end it because your not only gonna hurt youself your gonna be showing your kids its ok to be with someone who treats you like shit.