re: Being an smurf and cross-posting. But I need some advice.

U already have 2 kids and are in school? Think about how hard it would be to provide financially for 3 kids even if u had him helping u. How r u going to do it alone? I aborted my 3rd because it was just irresponsible to have another one. There was no more room in our house, we couldn't financially provide for another one. Mentally, we couldn't handle another one. Physically, I couldn't either. Let's face it, kids don't make ur body any prettier, I'm still struggling to get back to the way I used to look before baby number 2 and she's almost 2 years old. Just think about whats best for u and the family u already have.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:</b>" U already have 2 kids and are in school? Think about how hard it would be to provide financially for ... [snip!] ... to look before baby number 2 and she's almost 2 years old. Just think about whats best for u and the family u already have."</blockquote>




Thank you..that's a very good point.making it in school isn't an option. However, aborting it is a very real possibility. My third child is going to be my last, and I know it sounds bad, but I don't want to waste it on someone who doesn't even want it

<blockquote><b>Quoting a s h l e y.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:</b>" U already have 2 kids and are in school? ... [snip!] ... third child is going to be my last, and I know it sounds bad, but I don't want to waste it on someone who doesn't even want it"</blockquote>


That makes sense and trust me, it is not an easy choice to make but it sounds like it would be the right one for you right now. Good luck!

Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting a s h l e y.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ..::KNiCOLe::..:</b>" ... [snip!] ... sense and trust me, it is not an easy choice to make but it sounds like it would be the right one for you right now. Good luck!"

I find this odd because Yes I agree life would be tough heck it must be tough already to be going through school and raising 2 children on your own. But in the OP she said she feels like it's her baby, well it is, and yes things might be hard but OP you can do it, you already are with 2 children, you can do it with a 3rd, you are a strong person, I don't believe that by keeping this baby you'll be wasting your 3rd child, you will love this child just as much as the other two. I'm sorry I didn't want to sit here and try to convince you to go either way but I feel you need to hear both sides. A lot of people are saying YOUR CHOICE, and they are right, but then your also hearing why you should abort, so I'm hoping you can hear also why you shouldn't. Again good luck and please weight both sides carefully.

Quoting Nichole Melius:" I find this odd because Yes I agree life would be tough heck it must be tough already to be going through ... [snip!] ... you should abort, so I'm hoping you can hear also why you shouldn't. Again good luck and please weight both sides carefully."

this !

Quoting Nichole Melius:" I find this odd because Yes I agree life would be tough heck it must be tough already to be going through ... [snip!] ... you should abort, so I'm hoping you can hear also why you shouldn't. Again good luck and please weight both sides carefully."

This! Its good to weigh both sides of it. Just make sure you do what is best for you and not what you feel pressured in to. It might be hard but I dont think you would ever regret keeping this baby if you feel its right, just as you probably wouldnt regret getting an abortion if you felt that was the right thing.