I am NOT loving pregnancy! *vent*

First of all my boyfriend doesn't even want to have sex with me because he's scared that something will go wrong. I mean he even heard the doctor tell him nothing would happen. I feel like he's disgusted with me gaining so much weight and always "snacking" but I'm ALWAYS hungry I hate it. Before I got pregnant I only are once a day. Now he's always like "don't you ever get full" Second my little cousin who is basically lie my sister can't even help me get ready for my wedding next month because I'm having a "bastard" child! When her mom was in middle school when she first got pregnant! ! Then my simple wedding dress is too tight around my boobs and I look like a hooker in it so I have to find someone who can fix it in a week! Life seems so much harder being pregnant! I find out what I'm having in a few days and I'm not even showing!   I'm so sad about that. I airways imagined I'd have a huge round belly. Oh but I have gained enough weight that my pants no longer fit! Then when I go shopping my feet want to swell egger my shoes are too tight for my feet... I just want my baby to be here already with my old body back. I want to get married looking lie a princess, not a $2 hooker!
No one ever told me how hard pregnant would be! December seems so far from now!

You never hear about how hard it is to be pregnant. But just know you can get through this and it will all be worth it in the end.

Quoting RissaTee:" First of all my boyfriend doesn't even want to have sex with me because he's scared that something will ... [snip!] ... looking lie a princess, not a $2 hooker! No one ever told me how hard pregnant would be! December seems so far from now!"

You don't show for your first child early on. And you need to take a deep breathe, things could be ALOT worse, just be happy you have a healthy baby, because really that;s what matteres, stressing out only will make you sick and can harm the baby. When it is here , it will all be worth it.

Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" You never hear about how hard it is to be pregnant. But just know you can get through this and it will all be worth it in the end."

They definitely don't. I complained about that all the time with my first pregnancy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to William + 1:</b>" They definitely don't. I complained about that all the time with my first pregnancy."</blockquote>




I wish I could have baby already.

Quoting RissaTee:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to William + 1:</b>" They definitely don't. I complained ... [snip!] ... don't. I complained about that all the time with my first pregnancy."</blockquote> I wish I could have baby already."

If you look at it in a miserable way its going to drag on like my best friends did. I loved every minute and mine has gone by in a second! If your negative and hate it it will go on forever. And you still have a lonnnng time to go.

Quoting RissaTee:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to William + 1:</b>" They definitely don't. I complained ... [snip!] ... don't. I complained about that all the time with my first pregnancy."</blockquote> I wish I could have baby already."

I hear you! Hang in there. I promise it's worth it and once it's done, you'll probably even miss it a bit.

im due in december aswell a due december 2nd am 17weeks today   im having truble sleeping , grown out of my clothes and had to go spend aot of money on more so im sorted and comfy throughout the pregnancy and altho its my first baby im showing really early staterd to show were pople came and said are u pegnant ? at 12-13weeks and now i even bigger ppl keep joking saying is it twins :l i wassent skinny b4 getting preggo by a long shot but i hated were b4 i looked preggo i just looked like a greedy cow lol but 1s u look peggo it all gets better in that dpartment luckly coz u not got much of a bump yet u wnt have the night time pains and problems yet , so i wud say enjoy it while u can darlin   i love being pregnant its just draggging atm because i find out what were having on 18th july and it just wnt come fast enough   xx

Quoting RissaTee:" First of all my boyfriend doesn't even want to have sex with me because he's scared that something will ... [snip!] ... looking lie a princess, not a $2 hooker! No one ever told me how hard pregnant would be! December seems so far from now!"

How old is your little cousin? As far as I'm concerned a child is only a bastard if one, he/she has no dad or two, his parents are not married. So I'm sorry but considering the facts that your boyfriend is still around and you are getting married next month your little cousin needs to shut the .... up. Again, sorry. No disrespect intended, well sort of.

Anyways, I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I can't relate because maybe it was the I was so excited to be pregnant but I never had a bad experience throughout my pregnancy.

Do you exercise? Maybe that'll help you keep the weight down. I used to walk an hour and 30 minutes a day and do pregnancy crunches and sit ups. Made me feel better about my self. It is sort of smurf'ish for your SO to ask you if you ever get full though.

Also, maybe writing will help. Try keeping a baby diary where you write to your daughter/son and post pictures and stuff for when they get older. I found that very fun.

I always thought that I will never show but my tummy is huge! I know most of it is bloat and not baby but I feel like I look like i'm 6 months already and I can't even imagine how huge I will be by the end of next month! My husband was scared to have sex with me too and one night we just did it I showed him that I wasn't bleeding and spotting and now our sex life is back to normal! Also pregnancy does effect us all differently thats what i've learned so far...I'm sure sometimes its hard to see the blessing in progress but maybe when you start feeling kicks (if you haven't already) it will make you feel a little more connected. When I had my gender ultrasound this past wed I swear I felt so connected to my baby boy. Just to see him wiggling and dancing for us on the screen was priceless and now i'm just super excited for whats to come!  

The only thing I like about being pregnant is when i feel him move. but I am alway in pain when I work sometimes when im not even at work he always getting in my back and ribs. but i didnt start showing till i was about 25 weeks and then it was still debatable but im 30 weeks now and i still dont feel as big as i should be. but i have only lost weight i havent gained anything but lost about 35lbs. but just wait. you will get bigger and feel like you cant fit in anything or fit thru anything. i have given up on wearing jeans unless its to something nice and even then i dont really want to. but december will be here before you know it.

when i was pregnant i had terrible morning sickness that lasted up until my 2nd trimester, i didnt feel pregnant but yet i was hungry and bloated. when i found out the sex at 20 weeks i was not showing at all. but i started feeling him and it made it feel so much more real and worth it. i didnt show until about 25 weeks and didnt have a "round belly" until 30 weeks. its completely normal and trust me you do NOT want to be big. from 30-40 weeks i felt like an oompa loompa, couldnt fit in any clothes, it was uncomfortable to sit down, lay down, aidens feet were in my ribs 24/7 and i felt like i was going to explode anytime i ate not to mention the never ended heartburn. but trust me its not that bad. feeling him kick and watching him through my stomach and seeing him in the ultrasounds now that i look back i miss my pregnancy. dont look at it as a bad thing, it can only get better because the end result it a cute little baby.

Eating once a day isn't healthy at all, so it's a good thing you're eating more, both for you and the baby. I'm sorry your bf is being a jerk. Have you tried talking to him?

In regards to your cousin, have you tried talking to her? How old is she? Calling a child a "bastard" is hateful and mean both to the parents and the child. Having a child out of wedlock doesn't make the child any less loved. It's weird how judgmental people are about it. Not everyone believes in marriage and being married doesn't mean the child is anymore loved/wanted.

<blockquote><b>Quoting veggie86:</b>" Eating once a day isn't healthy at all, so it's a good thing you're eating more, both for you and the ... [snip!] ... people are about it. Not everyone believes in marriage and being married doesn't mean the child is anymore loved/wanted."</blockquote>




My cousin's 15 & I tell her all the time to wait to have sec. I've been with my fiancé for 6 years! I just hope she'll br able to be in the room with me when I have my little girl...