Relationship with BD's family?

If you had a good/decent relationship with your BD's family before you broke up, what were things like after you broke up?
I know it's probably different for every person.

I have a decent relationship with BD's family. I really like some of them, and they seem to like me. I feel like his mother is going to be a huge bitch to me now that I'm not doing everything in my power to please her son   And with a child involved, I can see things getting ugly.
I hope I'm wrong  

I had a great relationship with BD's mom when we were together and not his dad at all. Now I feel as I am getting closer to his dad.

He always made his dad sound like a dick, but as I've gotten to know him he just speaks the truth.

I've got a couple of ex-boyfriends families that I'm still on good terms with. I'm even friends with some their parents on Facebook. Lol. I don't have kids with them, so it's different. But it is still possible.

i was really close with my mother in law, and my sister is law was my best friend, and after me and my husband split up, nothing changed, we knew that no matter what happen to me and him, they are still my family to

SO and I had a breakup. It was short, but in the time it took to have SO call his fam and tell them the news... They flat out said he could have done better (our relationship had seemed fine. They never went out of their way to make me feel unwelcome or unloved). They were gonna shut my phone off that was on their plan. They told my SO to just ignore me and not bother with me, because he could do better. His mother also bought a non-refundable plane ticket to come out and console him and stay at our place all the while I was still living there.... (he was being a dickhead and it was his fault in the first place, console him for being an idiot?!) I got a taste test of just how things will be if we ever do break up for good. Yippee :/

I still have a good relationship with my Ex's mother and with his brother...and with him as well haha.

I'm still on good terms with my youngest's family.

Thanks for all the replies ladies   It makes me feel a bit better about things. BD is a huge mama's boy and I'm sure he's told her all sorts of things about me  

Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" Thanks for all the replies ladies   It makes me feel a bit better about things. BD is a huge mama's boy and I'm sure he's told her all sorts of things about me   "

My SO still hasn't learned the art of knowing when I say "shut your effing mouth about me to your mama! ain't none of that her business!" I mean it. Someday when I spill my guts to my family about every little thing he does when we have a fight or whatever he will get a taste of his own medicine. He says "oh. I was upset. You can't be mad at me for saying something out of sadness or anger." I can when it makes your mom hate me! lol hope you guys have it better than we do. Picture of dysfunction here  

Quoting *Lindsey Loves Joey*:" My SO still hasn't learned the art of knowing when I say "shut your effing mouth about me to your mama! ... [snip!] ... or anger." I can when it makes your mom hate me! lol hope you guys have it better than we do. Picture of dysfunction here  "

We were pretty dysfunctional. Well, I guess we still are. Kind of confusing and jumbled.

Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" Thanks for all the replies ladies   It makes me feel a bit better about things. BD is a huge mama's boy and I'm sure he's told her all sorts of things about me   "

Thats what I'm having to deal with my bd is a huge momma's boy and well from the point she found out I was pregnant she was nice for a day but since then I'm apparently some lying cheating whore after nothing but his money (which he doesn't have any). She did the same with his brother when his now wife got pregnant...difference is his brother grew a pair my ex just attached the umbilical cord tighter. None of his family has bothered with asking me how this pregnancy is going and prior to this breakup I thought they liked me. Its fine though I know the truth and I know who the scum bag was in the relationship thats all that matters to me.

Its been a nightmare so far. His dad and brother not so much, But he is a mommas boy and she stands behind him whether right or wrong 110%. In our case he did me and the kids EXTREMELY dirty. We got a long very well before this and now its awful.

i would say relationships changes with famlies over the years. i dont even speak to or talk to any of the family of the my bd. they are all ignorant for that matter. i get along with his sister and she accepts me and has a relationship with my children but other than that i dont speak to anyone on his side. sometimes it just works out like that.

The day I kicked my hubby out, my mother inlaw was on my case for weeks. "The man is always right, don't ever raise your voice to him." Yea, don't think so. It went from how bad of a wife I was to how bad of a mother I am. That quickly changed when I showed her who was boss in my house LOL.

Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" If you had a good/decent relationship with your BD's family before you broke up, what were things like ... [snip!] ... doing everything in my power to please her son   And with a child involved, I can see things getting ugly. I hope I'm wrong  "

I just broke up with my boyfriend too. And right now I have a great relationship with his family. I even went over to his grandparents, where his whole family gets together last Sunday. But my situations a little different. His family doesn't like the choices he's making. They still consider me apart of their family & told me I'm always welcome. They still want to be in our baby's life and his mom calls to check on me constantly. Though my ex is being stupid, I'm glad his family is being pretty great.