should I get one just because I'm 14?

my parent don't support that I want to keep it they won't help me... My bf wants me to keep it. But we have no other support... We don't have jobs or money... His mom wants me to abort. I have no one..... I have nothing to give it. And I don't feel happy about an adoption. But I saw it on the u/s and it looks like a baby but I don't know how to protect it. I have considered just doing an abortion but I love babies so much can't see how I could say goodbye this way really idk...

How far along are you?

I wouldn't do it if you're not 100% sure.

It's ultimately your decision. They can't make you get an abortion. Nor can they make you give your child up for adoption. If you can literally do nothing for your child though, maybe adoption would be best. Especially, if you have no family willing to help you both out until you're the legal age to work.

Don't do it because every1 else wants u too... u need to make that decision, maybe talk to a school counsler maybe they can help u find a suport group?? How far are u??

Huh, I'm sorry. You are very young of course but that's sad nobody is there for you... I think you should go to Planned Parenthood or somewhere where you can talk to somebody more in-depth about abortion or adoption just to see if maybe one of those choices WOULD be good for you. Or keep it of course... I can't even imagine how harsh that would be though...

<blockquote><b>Quoting TCJ ♥:</b>" It's ultimately your decision. They can't make you get an abortion. Nor can they make you give your child ... [snip!] ... adoption would be best. Especially, if you have no family willing to help you both out until you're the legal age to work."</blockquote>




  agree

It depends on how far along you are. You need to do what YOU feel comfortable with but honestly, I would abort. You are so young and you deserve to enjoy what's left of your childhood. Raising a child is not an easy task. It takes a lot out of you but it is possible. If you decide to keep it then there are programs and assistance that can help you out. Be sure to look into all options. Don't be persuaded by what everyone else wants or you may regret it. Best of luck and feel free to PM me.

when I talked to the one at pp I thought abortion was easiest...

Quoting scared2keep:" when I talked to the one at pp I thought abortion was easiest..."

Well, is that what you want? Don't do it just because it's easy. Do it because it's what you want. No one wants to give their child up, but if it's the best they can do for their child, that's what happens. I mean, i'm in no way trying to tell you what to do, but no part of this is "easy", and don't take the "easiest" way out just because you don't want to deal with it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting scared2keep:</b>" when I talked to the one at pp I thought abortion was easiest..."</blockquote>




It may be the best option for u but its not easy... how far are u?? Are u past the abortion pill stage??

Abortion is not the easiest but it could be the best solution in this situation if you are not ready to be a parent

Quoting TCJ ♥:" Well, is that what you want? Don't do it just because it's easy. Do it because it's what you want. No ... [snip!] ... what to do, but no part of this is "easy", and don't take the "easiest" way out just because you don't want to deal with it."

no i dont... but its all thats left

<blockquote><b>Quoting scared2keep:</b>" when I talked to the one at pp I thought abortion was easiest..."</blockquote>


For some it comes easily and for others, not so much. It really depends. It's not a choice you can make at the drop of a hat. Talk to your family and tell them exactly how you're feeling. Come up with a game plan for each scenario and how it will work out. I am 100% pro choice and I put the needs of the mother first. If you don't feel comfortable raising a child at a young age, there is absolutely no shame in abortion.

<blockquote><b>Quoting scared2keep:</b>" when I talked to the one at pp I thought abortion was easiest..."</blockquote>




Depending on how far you are, yea the procedure could be pretty easy. If you want to do it... Honestly I think that is your best option but no one can force you to do it...