Quoting AshTray Dawn:" i think its total bs that there are teens who get praised for having a baby young n takin care of it ... [snip!] ... adopting it instead of giveing it to some other family. eventhough they have the means to support/provide n love that child."
So, you adopted a baby at 19?
Or do you mean, did you give your child up for adoption rather than raise him yourself, but you're still called "selfish" and a bad mother for it?
Or, had I misunderstood that completely lol
...I guess I'll just read over this topic and maybe get my answer? xD