his fathers new girlfriend

 okay so my sons father has a new woman which doesnt bother me except for the fact that he up and moved her here from florida and moved her in with him. Shes really good with chase ( my son ) so iv been trying to bite my lip and be nice cause i cant really ask for more than her treating my son right but.... she has only actually see him once and she was tring to get him to say he loved her and that kinda made me mad cause he doesnt need to love her shes just his fathers girl friend am i overreacting?? well last night i was sbored and looking around on myspace and i found her page so i was looking at i and she has 58 pic of MY SON!!! are you kindding me its not like she spends alot of time with him shes met him once i dont know why but this really kinda pissed me off bad. she just shows up and expect to move in on my child hell no hes all i have hes my whole life!!! i just dont even know how to take it or react to it. is she syco or am i plesase help me out and by the way she only has 10 pic of herself on there and about 20 of chases father but 58 of chase AAAARRRRRGGGGGGG!! 

holy cow. that is a bit excessive i understand why you would be pissed.

i am upset that ava's dads gf has just ONE photo of ava on her page.. but 58.. i would definitely say something about that.

I may be absolutely completely wrong...but sounds like she;s trying to be momma, momma.

i would say something. Esspecially sinc e(im guessing) her page is set to public. Anyone can see those pictures of YOUR son. and iw ouldnt want my kids face everywhere.... and its not her decision to make.

That's insane! Yeah, you need to have a word with her soon..

My ex best friends sister is going through this, although its been more like years and custody battles.

You have to watch your ass, no joke.

Her boyfriend got custody of their son who is now three, then started living with his new girlfriend, and all she's ever wanted was a baby... so she tried to make him hers. Her father paid to have thier apartent outfitted in baby shit, she makes the dad fight for custody and is mean to the mother, not to mention she tried to start making him call her Mommy and call his mom by her name.

It's bullshit, seriously watch yourself for people like this. If it get out of hand get a lawer... Who's got custody?

I can understand why you are upset. It sounds like she is trying to play mommy with your baby.

Wow...Thats rediculous. You should definatly say something to her about that...It seems to me that she is trying to be like a mother to him and thats your job hunny!

kick her ass. sorry that was the pregnancy speaking.

but seriously tell her to step off. not her kid, not her place. not her right. and maybe you should warn the ex, sounds like she might start putting holes in the condoms

Quoting ~(Breanna)~:“ My ex best friends sister is going through this, although its been more like years and custody battles. ... [snip!] ... name. It's bullshit, seriously watch yourself for people like this. If it get out of hand get a lawer... Who's got custody?”

really no one has custody we slpit before he was born and me and kevin where never married so hes just always been with me and kevin doesnt really care he gets him for like a weekend every month and thats only cause i call and ask him if he wants to see his son. the prblem is i know him and he will get mad if i say anything to her but i really need to just sit down and be like look bitch this is my son not your back off you can have his daddy i dont want him but the kid is mine!!!! lol i just think it fing crazy. i dare him to try and fight me in a custody battle hes got a record with drugs and he went a wall from the millitary but mine is clean im a good girl!!  

Quoting megankaye:“  okay so my sons father has a new woman which doesnt bother me except for the fact that he up and ... [snip!] ... and by the way she only has 10 pic of herself on there and about 20 of chases father but 58 of chase AAAARRRRRGGGGGGG!! ”

Tell her straight up to get them off of there... she sounds like a crazy person.. If she doesn't take them off then tell his father and then if nothing is done, tell him that you aren't comfortable with her around him anymore...

I'm looking at the same thing. My son's father and I recently split(real nice of him to decide he couldn't handle me when I'm pretty far along with our daughter...) but I told him he'd have to deal with a dead girlfriend if my kids came back after a weekend visit talking about their "other mommy" or if I heard Justin say "mama" to the other chickadee he ends up with.
I think its a serious sign of disrespect.

Quoting NinjaBaby:“ I'm looking at the same thing. My son's father and I recently split(real nice of him to decide he couldn't ... [snip!] ... mommy" or if I heard Justin say "mama" to the other chickadee he ends up with. I think its a serious sign of disrespect.”

I agree with ya there...I swear if my kids ever call anyone but me mom (with few exceptions) i will knock that womandown a notch or two....