Fed up with people

So.. This past week people been telling me that I gained weight.. So today like never... My sons babysitter grabs what I call my pouch that I got from my kids and askew me what is that? And where I got it from ? Like hello! I did have two kids in less than a 3 years! Than on top of that I'm doing FaceTime with my first love.. No feelings , just friends ... And he tells me wow u gotten fat! Like when we were together I was 16 and 120 pounds, hello I'm a woman now! I brushed his comment off and he goes, hello u got fat you heard! When we were together he always put me down, always saying I have pimples and need proactive and etc

Ugh these people get me sick. I don't consider myself fat, I think I'm thick. Last week I was 171.. Now I'm down to 166lbs... I have a butt and thighs ... I just don't see nothing wrong with me! But when will the madness end !

She grabbed you? like physically grabbed you?
someone would have gotten slapped...  

I would tell them all to smurf off.

Quoting ☣iLL-Legal Alien:" She grabbed you? like physically grabbed you? someone would have gotten slapped...  "

Slapped? That bitch would have gotten knocked the SmUUUUrf OUT!!! LOL

Quoting MOmmy of Angelsss:" So.. This past week people been telling me that I gained weight.. So today like never... My sons babysitter ... [snip!] ... Now I'm down to 166lbs... I have a butt and thighs ... I just don't see nothing wrong with me! But when will the madness end !"

completely rude on all of them... but why not just lose some weight if it offends you? how tall are you? If you're 45 lbs over your pre-pregnancy weight... try some dieting and exercise.

I'm not being mean.. jsut saying. I went from 115 before my first.. and got up to 165. This last year I lost 40 lbs.. and feel SO much better.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☣iLL-Legal Alien:</b>" She grabbed you? like physically grabbed you? someone would have gotten slapped...  "</blockquote>



Lol yeah she grabbed it like literally! Like a person will pinch a baby's cheeks.. I was highly upset smh

I weigh 355.. I'M fat. (I'm 32 weeks pregnant right now..but I normally weight 355. Before my first, I weighed 300)   I've always been fat though...and if a person grabbed my fatty pouch thing (I NEVER had one before I had my son!) I'd flip the smurf out. I don't have an issue with being fat...except the pouch thing...I hate it lol.

Tell them to screw off..and slap the person that grabbed your pooch. That's rude and I don't care who you are. :/

<blockquote><b>Quoting snugglemama:</b>" completely rude on all of them... but why not just lose some weight if it offends you? how tall are ... [snip!] ... jsut saying. I went from 115 before my first.. and got up to 165. This last year I lost 40 lbs.. and feel SO much better."</blockquote>




Thank you. And yes that's what I'm doing. I guess people are not use to seein a heavier me. I lost 5 pounds so far , but it all takes time.

wow   i would tell them both to smurf off and tell that girl not to touch you again. how rude...

if your guy friend has always put you doen and still doing so, you should just cut him out.

You really need new friends. It's one thing to joke with your best girl friend about having a few pounds to lose, but I would seriously be offended by the way these people are treating you.

I'm sorry   People can be so rude  

I had a guy ask me several months back if I was pregnant & it really ruined my day!

Thanks ladies.. Since that horrible day I cut my exboyfriend off and gave him a few unkind words lol and my sons babysitter, lets just say I'm very firm with her now. She's the type of person who has a lot of mouth and is bold like no one can tell her nothing. And since im younger than her( she's in her late 50s) I show respect and let her tell me whatever she wants because I don't like talkin back to oldr people... But now m not going to let her talk down to me anymore even when it comes to my son.. Because I notice she doesn't do that to my mom when she goes to pick him up and drop him off at the day care. Hmm idk lol