re: birth

if you're having a c-section you won't realize the epidural. Your mind will be going a million miles a minute the epidural will be the last thing you fear at that point. I've had 2 (1 emergency and 1 planned) and honestly don't remember any of them. I know the minute right up to them saying "ok here we go" and then feeling nothing. Sorry you have to change your birth plan but sometimes it's for the better and safety of you and baby. Try not to let it get you down. A good dr. will talk you all the way through it from start to finish before and during and answer any questions/fears you have. Your anesthesiologist should be right by your side so make sure you talk to them and tell them how you're feeling, anxiety, etc they might be able to calm your nerves or give you something in an I.V. line to help calm ya down a bit.

OP have you ever watched a child birth video?

Quoting Jennybananna:" you cant really control that part. If a c-section is needed for whatever reason then thats what happens. I wouldnt worry to much about the baby getting stuck though it very rarely happens."

There are ways to reduce the risk of c-section.
~ Stay active during pregnancy
~ Try not to gain more than the recommended weight
~ Chose a Dr with low c-section rates
~ Avoid induction
~ Avoid drugs or procedures to stimulate stronger contractions
~ Avoid pain meds
~ Go to the hospital when you are already in very active labor
~ Try to remain calm and as comfortable as possible.
~ Have good support from family and your medical team
~ Consent to a c-section only in urgent situations.