re: opinions ?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" Not to be a bitch but I'm sure you don't pay the whole rent, or the whole light bill, water bill, cable ... [snip!] ... my roof I wouldn't hesitate to kick her out. One child may be a mistake, two is being plain stupid and just abusing the help."</blockquote>


No I don't. But went to show that I wasn't a normal teen who dropped out and didn't do smurf with their lives. I haven't been to one party since 2010 when I graduated HS. stayed in college, and helped pay bills. Unlike alot of teens/people who live with their parents. I know plenty like 25 year olds with 2-3 kids living with their parents. HS dropouts etc.
I'm far beyond that statistical bullsmurf route. Which is why quite frankly I don't give a smurf about gettin kicked out. Not like I got everything handed to me anyway. My parents haven't watched my son once since he was born and he's almost 1. So I didn't abuse smurf.  
Nothing to abuse. There loss like I said. I'll have 2 beautiful babies and a college degree and my own place. Im not complaining about getting kicked out. Idgaf really lol I'm grown and not a teen so No big deal.

Quoting Princesa Mariah Talayya:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" Not to be a bitch but I'm sure you don't ... [snip!] ...   Nothing to abuse. There loss like I said. I'll have 2 beautiful babies and a college degree and my own place. No big deal."

Wow, you make it sound like the real world is full of candy and ice cream. Like everything will be magically easy and okay. Which is not. I'm sorry but taking the fact that your parents are kicking you out and you're pregnant with your second doesn't make you any better than a 25 yr old with 2-3 kids. I'm sure if your parents allowed you to, you would live in their home.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" Wow, you make it sound like the real world is full of candy and ice cream. Like everything will be magically ... [snip!] ... make you any better than a 25 yr old with 2-3 kids. I'm sure if your parents allowed you to, you would live in their home."</blockquote>




It is. I got passed the hardest part. I'm past worrying about if I'll finish HS or get a diploma. Or get a good Job (most jobs now require you to be 18+)
I got past the hardest part already. I'm nearly done college. That's the HARDEST PART. If you watch 16 and pregnant and all those shows that's the thing they most stress about school && work. / degree.
And actually no I wouldn't stay. Not really a good environment in my parents house lately. Having a little brother who got kicked outta high school 4 times and now can't go back. 18 with no drivers license or and GED or diploma. I'm golden compared to my younger sibling. Because I did get thru the rough patches. And now I'm at the end.
It is all ice cream cones and flowers over here. And I will be better then them cus I WON'T BE AT MY PARENTS!!!! I'll be on my own with a job n a degree.
So sorry it's taking u a bit to realize a 20 year old can be successful.  
Not being a bitch just saying. I'm at the point where alot of people are struggling to get to. It's life.

Quoting Princesa Mariah Talayya:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" Wow, you make it sound like the real world ... [snip!] ... be successful.   Not being a bitch just saying. I'm at the point where alot of people are struggling to get to. It's life."

Lol, wow! You're exactly the reason why 16 & Pregnant and Teen Mom gets so many bad reviews. Did it cross your mind that maybe the girls from Teen Mom pay their housing with the 350,000 salary a year they get? You will be a young mother of two. How are you going to do it to get to school and back, pregnant with a kid after your four weeks are up and your parents kick you out? Who's going to take care of your kid while you're at school. You think right after you get out of college you'll magically find a job and you'll get payed 50/hour and you'll have 1.000 paycheck weekly. It doesn't work like that, regardless if you have a degree you have to start from the bottom, they'll put you in a position that your degree says you're stable but you'll still most likely get paid a little over minimum wage. Not to mention that a lot of these people who graduate from universities with degrees have a hard time finding a job at all. Specially if you're in some nine month smurf course to be a nurse's assitant and smurf like that. A friend of mine had a degree in billing and coding or something that matter and she's getting 12/hour. I will be honest, I have not finished college yet and I'm getting 25/hour plus commision without a degree it's not even funny.

I am done having this discussion anyways. I just wish you the very best of luck.

I am 19 & just had a babygirl.When i was 6 months pregnant my mom kicked me out.I stayed with my boyfriend & his parents for a little while
& in 3 months i got my g.e.d, a car & an apt and now im on my own. I look back on it and im so thankful that it went down like that. Sometimes you & your parents have no choice but to learn/ teach the hard way.

Quoting Princesa Mariah Talayya:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" Wow, you make it sound like the real world ... [snip!] ... be successful.   Not being a bitch just saying. I'm at the point where alot of people are struggling to get to. It's life."

way to trash and judge others to make yourself feel good

Quoting Princesa Mariah Talayya:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sweetie-Pie:</b>" Wow, you make it sound like the real world ... [snip!] ... be successful.   Not being a bitch just saying. I'm at the point where alot of people are struggling to get to. It's life."

i have a nursing degree and i still stryggle to pay my bills. my son is well taken care of and my husband is in the army so even with 2 sources of income we stiil have a hard time. so no with a degree its not magically going to be better and your going to have 2 kids, one income, daycare fopr both children. good luck but its not as easy as you think. youll be competing with alot of other ppl who have degrees ans experience and arent limited to certain hours because of there kids.