Scared of Everything... HELP!!??!!!

I am freashly pregnant and scared of everything.lol imlike7 wks and sum days.i had very bad cramping in the beginng and that has calmed down alot so that kinda helped with my worrying. but about 2wks ago me and my bf had sex and i had sum very light pink spotting when i wiped and slight cramping so i went to the emergency room and theytook blood and took and internal sonagram 6 hrs later after switching doctors this cold asshole comes in and tells me i could b having a spontaneous abortion which to my understanding in a misscarriage . AND walked out without an explanation the nurse told me that apparently the test said my hormones werent high enuf or sumthin or possibly am losing my baby.....
so i rested like they told me for 3-5 days but i never went back... (traumatized)
since that day i havent had any bleeding jus mild achy cramps every now and mild back pains when im sleeping.. .. i pay attention to every ache and pain to the point where its all i can think about. i also have a milky discharge and my nipplesr dry & cracking and hurt on and off ... is any of this normal?? has neone else had this diagonsis? and should i b so worried? i would ask my doc but i cant get in wit him until 23rd. and i havent had ne morning sickness either is that norm? im jus scared something is wrong. my mom tells me to calm down since i havent had ne bleeding or clots passed.. but i cant help it especially since i dont feel pregnant... HELP!!!!!!!??????!!!!?!?!?!

Have you called your doctor? I am due after you and have already had my first prenatal visit and today I go for my first sonogram. It is a very scary time but I know talking to my doctor helped me some.

Quoting PrinZess:“ I am freashly pregnant and scared of everything.lol imlike7 wks and sum days.i had very bad cramping ... [snip!] ... had ne bleeding or clots passed.. but i cant help it especially since i dont feel pregnant... HELP!!!!!!!??????!!!!?!?!?!”

Usually if you call your dr and tell him you have had some bleeding they will go ahead and get you in

yea i called and he is out of the country right now...when i made the appointment i told here the historyand she just told me jus to call back if i had any more bleeding or severe cramping... which im not having...
could i just b overreacting?

First Of All Let Me Start Off By Saying Congrats On The Pregnancy. When That Doctor Told U That U Should Of Ask For Its Superviser And Told Them What Just Happen Because They Are Not Suppose To Just Tell U Something Like That And Then Leave. U Should Have Went Back To See The Doctor Because U Don't Know What Could Have Been Wrong. But I Understand Because U Are Scared And Thats Normal. Some People Don't Get Nausea, Because I Didn't Get Nausea Until I Was Like 2 1/2 3 Months. Some People Just Don't Get Thats A Good Thing (LOL). Why Can U Go In There For An Emergency Appointment All Doctors Are Suppose To Let A Pregnant Women Come In Because They Don't Know What Can Be Happen. Ur Breast Are Suppose To Hurt Because Ur Milk Ducts Are Not Trying To Start To ProduceMilk For When U Have The Baby. If U Are Not Bleeding Don't Worry. But Try Not To Have Sex Until U Go Back To The Doctor And Let Them Tell u When U Can Being To Have Sex Again. I Wish U The Best. From Ma'isah

I had this happen with my first baby. We found out later that I was earlier in the pregnancy than we thought. The spotting was also found to be a pocket of blood that had gotten loose after I was pregnant.... I also know that it is sometimes normal to have a pinkish discharge after sex anytime in pregnancy because the cervix could have gotten irritated. I don't know if this applies to you but I wish you lots of luck!

Quoting Mrs. Ma'isah Muhammad:“ First Of All Let Me Start Off By Saying Congrats On The Pregnancy. When That Doctor Told U That U Should ... [snip!] ... Have Sex Until U Go Back To The Doctor And Let Them Tell u When U Can Being To Have Sex Again. I Wish U The Best. From Ma'isah”

thank you very much that makes me feel betterthat some of this is norm....andmy bf cant even get close to me im so paronoidso we hav laid off until the appointment.....i kno shouldve went back but i figured 23rd isnt that far if there isnt nething too off happening...and congratulations 2 u as well

You Are Welcome If I Can Help U In Any Kind Of Way I Will Do My Best. I Went My Appointment Yesterday To See What I Was Having The Baby Would Not Open its Legs. I Think The Lady Made The Baby Mad. But I Just Have A Feeling That Its A Boy

Quoting Mrs. Ma'isah Muhammad:“ You Are Welcome If I Can Help U In Any Kind Of Way I Will Do My Best. I Went My Appointment Yesterday ... [snip!] ... I Was Having The Baby Would Not Open its Legs. I Think The Lady Made The Baby Mad. But I Just Have A Feeling That Its A Boy”

i appreciate that ......do u want a boy? they say the way u care can tell u what r having too... well good luck

My husband want a boy and it really dont matter but i can go for a boy to but i will be happy for what ever i get cause it will still be special to me cause its my husband and i first baby i guess that i can just buy netural colors for now