Quoting TxzMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Melissa ღ:</b>" Aww. Don't most people in NY take bus ... [snip!] ... Yeah but I'm in CT about an hour away I've never taken the bus lol but it's like a trip thing an all day thing..I'm excited lol"
Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" I don't even know how much the zoo here costs. We accidentally went in without paying. But, we did spend 500¥ on pony rides."
Quoting Remembering Cortnie:" I brought guys around my then 1 yr old. Most of em I didn't date but if you do like him, do something ... [snip!] ... him, do something kid appropriate during the day & then at night put your kid to bed & spend some quality time w/ the guy ?"
Quoting Remembering Cortnie:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Melissa ღ:</b>" Sounds like a great idea, thanks. "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... Yea most guys were just friends so it didn't seem inappropriate to me... & if your kid is asleep thennnn... Lol"
Quoting Abbie Myers:" i had the same question when i started talking to mike but he is a single father so we kkinda use the ... [snip!] ... hold sky all the time if i let him lol i have 2 watch him though cause he sneaks them treats b4 dinner and stuff like that lol."
Quoting Melissa ღ:" True. He always asks me how she is doing which is sweet. He asks about her more than her own father does smh."I brought DH around DD before we ever started dating. Some guys can be awesome with kids one second...and be complete smurfs to them the next. Having them around your kid before you start dating,and having him spend time with you and your child is a good way to tell if he feels frustration ect. Which imo is a good thing, Gah knows you don't want to start having feelings for a guy, and then realize, when it comes to your child....he's a real POS.
Quoting sueforizzle:" I brought DH around DD before we ever started dating. Some guys can be awesome with kids one second...and ... [snip!] ... Big deal (for me) If I started having feelings for some guy, brought him around my kid...and realized he was a d-bag. "
Quoting Melissa ღ:" True! Very valid point. I know a lot of people think it is taboo to bring your kid around a dude you ... [snip!] ... if he just a friend at first no harm if it doesn't work out and like you said if he is a d-bag with my DD he will get the boot."
Quoting sueforizzle:" I don't think it's taboo For me it was just easier. It's so much easier to give the boot to a ... [snip!] ... guy..total d-bag. Got frustrated because DD couldn't get the ball in the hole. Never spoke to him again. "