re: share?

never said it was important to me just said i was wandering. no one is forcing anyone to tell their storys here. it aint wrong to try n understand something. i was alwas told if u wanna learn ask questions so i did. so yall can back off with the negativity.

Quoting AshTray Dawn:" never said it was important to me just said i was wandering. no one is forcing anyone to tell their storys ... [snip!] ... try n understand something. i was alwas told if u wanna learn ask questions so i did. so yall can back off with the negativity."

You don't need to wonder. It doesn't concern you what someone else chooses for their body.
Everyone has different reasons, it doesn't matter what those reasons are.

I think if someone wanted to have an abortion, they probably have thought about it long enough that whatever reason they decided to go through with, was a good one.

Doesn't matter if it they just didn't a child, or if there were medical problems....

Your "good reason" might not be the same as their "good reason".

So..uh...yea, that's pretty much what I think.

<blockquote><b>Quoting AshTray Dawn:</b>" never said it was important to me just said i was wandering. no one is forcing anyone to tell their storys ... [snip!] ... try n understand something. i was alwas told if u wanna learn ask questions so i did. so yall can back off with the negativity."</blockquote>



Holy smurf, your spelling. Ain't???

Quoting AshTray Dawn:" never said it was important to me just said i was wandering. no one is forcing anyone to tell their storys ... [snip!] ... try n understand something. i was alwas told if u wanna learn ask questions so i did. so yall can back off with the negativity."

if someone doesn't want to give birth, they have the option not to give birth. pretty simple actually.

Quoting AshTray Dawn:" never said it was important to me just said i was wandering. no one is forcing anyone to tell their storys ... [snip!] ... try n understand something. i was alwas told if u wanna learn ask questions so i did. so yall can back off with the negativity."

Yeah, you're wandering alright....

Many reasons, many scenarios....rape, unplanned, not financially ready....
It's different for every woman who chooses abortion.

None of your beeswax, homes.

Quoting AshTray Dawn:" never said it was important to me just said i was wandering. no one is forcing anyone to tell their storys ... [snip!] ... try n understand something. i was alwas told if u wanna learn ask questions so i did. so yall can back off with the negativity."

Because it's their choice to do so. Plain and simple. Not really your business to know anything more.

I'm assuming you are just curious but for a lot of women its a deeply personal choice and they may not feel comfortable sharing their reasons simply to satisfy your curiosity. AS is a very protected forum, it's for sharing stories about abortions, questions about the procedures or healing(emotionally and physically) afterward. If you are really curious the place to post this question would be in D&D. You may still get some negative replies but it wouldn't be sent to the drama corner. It's a very controversial subject on BG.

I was pregnant and didn't want to be any more, isn't that the reason for every abortion? the factors that contributed to it vary from woman to woman but the reason is always the same, don't want to be pregnant any more.

Because you are unable to care for a child emotionally, physically, or financially.

Quoting AshTray Dawn:" i have never had an abortion myself, n i never will. but i do have to admit that i dont understand why ... [snip!] ... have one? im not saying its wrong i would just like to hear some of ur ladies reasons on why u had an abortion. no judgement."

It's honestly none of your god dammed business.  

Quoting AshTray Dawn:" never said it was important to me just said i was wandering. no one is forcing anyone to tell their storys ... [snip!] ... try n understand something. i was alwas told if u wanna learn ask questions so i did. so yall can back off with the negativity."

Y so curious?

I don't care, I'll share.

I haven't had an abortion but I was very close to scheduling an appointment when I found myself pregnant and very poor. (I ended up miscarrying). My s/o and I had decided that it was just the wrong time for a baby. We were very broke and were having trouble feeding ourselves. Abortion seemed right to us. However, like I said, I ended up miscarrying the baby.

Quoting AshTray Dawn:" i have never had an abortion myself, n i never will. but i do have to admit that i dont understand why ... [snip!] ... have one? im not saying its wrong i would just like to hear some of ur ladies reasons on why u had an abortion. no judgement."

because it's their body, and they can do as they please. the same reason your tiny brain decided to wonder why people abort, because it's your brain and it thinks the way you want it to. derp.