going down

my so and i got in a rather stupid (i think) fight last night. he actually went and slept on the couch. i haven't let him go down on my since i got pregnant.....so tmi time...since i got pregnant i have had that funky discharge like all the time and i sweat more down thre! gross! and he says he doesn't care...but i can't get over how it must not be so good down there....haha....so anyways....

should i just get over it? or how would i explain to him? and its not like i don't want him to do it..i like it....

Quoting BabyThomasInNovember:“ my so and i got in a rather stupid (i think) fight last night. he actually went and slept on the couch. ... [snip!] ... should i just get over it? or how would i explain to him? and its not like i don't want him to do it..i like it....”

Sorry, I dont know what to tell you... I have the EXACT same problem letting my hubby. I just dont know whats going on down there.

if he wants to, let him! Maybe keep some fem. wipes beside the bed to clean up a little before hand. The Summer's Eve wipes are good.

Everythings pretty funky down there.Lol.And I personally dont like my hubby going down there either.But if he REALLY wants to, take a shower before.Then youll feel better bout it and he wont expierence some nasty crazy stuff and deside he never wants to go down there again prego or not.lol.Just dont let him blow.Its bad.I dont know why but Ive been told no bursts of air up there.

Let him know. As soon as mine started getting worse my DH quit automatically. LOL

I hear ya! I'm ususally a hornball and for the past 2 months, I've felt dirty and have no desire what so ever. Last week, I was laying on the couch and he came down after his shower and started kissing my neck and trying to get some. I literally pushed him away because I said I felt funky!! I felt really bad, so I went upstairs, took a hsower and let him go to town && tried not to be a dead fish.

I would say shower, let him do his thang and suck it up! You're still early, it gets worse, let him enjoy it while he can and while you aren't a huge tank!

Just explain to him that you're only looking out for him but If you still like it and discharge is the only thing that's stopping you from letting him do it, catch him when you first get out the shower since you'll KNOW it's freshly clean and you'll feel a little bit more comfortable about the situation.

Just have a quick shower before hand, that way you will feel more confident about yourself. Either way i wouldn't pass oral up   There is always a way around the funk! lol.

Quoting BabyThomasInNovember:“ my so and i got in a rather stupid (i think) fight last night. he actually went and slept on the couch. ... [snip!] ... should i just get over it? or how would i explain to him? and its not like i don't want him to do it..i like it....”

Girl i say LET HIM. Just freshen up before. Take a bath or shower. especially if you really enjoy it!
I sure do. its my fav.   at first i was a little uncomfortable about it too.
but he likes doing it and i LOVE him doing it so i got over it.
i just shower or bathe before!
shit....if i didn't let him...i wouldn't ever enjoy sex or have an orgasm. and that would SUCK.

Quoting BabyThomasInNovember:“ my so and i got in a rather stupid (i think) fight last night. he actually went and slept on the couch. ... [snip!] ... should i just get over it? or how would i explain to him? and its not like i don't want him to do it..i like it....”

Yeah everything does go a little crazy down there but I just go and wash up REALLY GOOD!!! before hand.

I had the same problem! My doctor told me to treat it like a yeast infection and he gave me these pills to help stop it. he said its where you'r growing your body is producing alot more fluids and causing a lot of discharge. I took the pills he gave me and did a yeast infection kit and it almost completely stopped..that might help!

I've had the same problem, too! I finally just decided to let him do it bc I was tired of fighting about it. Then if he has a problem with it, I can say I told you! I just try to wipe it before he does it and then by the time he's done i'm always wet from him anyways so he doesn't notice. TMI! Also I got some feminime spray so that it at least smells good. LOL!