Ughhh.

I know I post about my BD ALL the time, its just hardd. Ugh. I had my friend look at his fb a few days ago considering he blocked me, & some girl asked him 'when his girl was due' he said I wasnt his girl and due next month or in a month, i'm not sure. Either way both of those are WAY wrong, & he wrote that weeeks ago. So, he thinks im SOO close to having her & yet still hasn't called. UGHHHHH! I really made myself believe my whole pregnancy that he would start coiming around and calling more when I got closer, & I was obviously wrong. I'm just so pissed, and wanna call him SO bad but I won't let myself, cuz I know all it will do is stress me out. UGH. Pointless vent.

I'm sorry you're going through all that..

My advice is just let it go like you said it's just gonna make you stress and obviously he's not worth even trying to contact!

He sounds like a douche. 

Your a bit stronger then me if you haven't called him. I texted and emailed and got no response...but mine expects me to write back to him immediatly. I also thought that the closer to the end I got the more he'd be around but I'm realizing the hard way it isn't true. I don't think he knows jack about her name, my due date or where I'll be. All he cares about is that he thinks I want his money. My little girl has everything she will need and if need be will have a father figure since he can't be bothered.

Quoting buggials:" Your a bit stronger then me if you haven't called him. I texted and emailed and got no response...but ... [snip!] ... his money. My little girl has everything she will need and if need be will have a father figure since he can't be bothered."

I'm sorry sounds like a douche like mine. Yeah, I've bought everything for my daughter except a few things MY family got. I didn't have a baby shower so basically everything is from me. & I asked him a couple months ago if he would help pay for a 3d ultrasound considering he hasnt bought one thing. He said he would, when I got closer to the day of the appoinment I asked if he was still paying and he said all I wanted was his money!!!! I ended up paying for it all by myself and havent talked to him, didnt even have the decency to come to the appointment.

Quoting 08.04.12:" I'm sorry sounds like a douche like mine. Yeah, I've bought everything for my daughter except a few ... [snip!] ... I ended up paying for it all by myself and havent talked to him, didnt even have the decency to come to the appointment."

lol I paid for everything the only shower im getting is at work...and i paid for a 4d ultrasound...stupidly agreed to believe him when he said he would give me money after it and I havent seen a dime only got told all i ever ask for is money...well duh i've dropped like 3k of my money on this kid my family bought some small stuff but its mostly me. he has been to one appointment and every other time made excuses I want him to be involved so when I look back I can tell his daughter yes your dad was there and so excited right now I can't say anything but he was there randomly and didn't think you were his. I won't and can't say that to a child ever I just hope he grows up or walks away and she never knows bout him.

If he is not interested maybe it is better that he is just not in your life. My BD moved to texas when I was 2 months prego, and the closer i get to having this baby the more he wants to come back, but he has never helped with anything. It was just like having another child to take care of. I have worked and taken care of our whole family for 4 and a half years, and this isnt the first time he has left. When I was prego with my 3rd child he was in colorado until right before I had the baby. I just figure now that sometimes you just have to cut your losses, and do it on your own.

I went through this exact same thing! Even the whole fb conversation. He never came around. I stopped talking to him in October 2011 and had my son In April. He never called between then. His mom ended up calling the week after my son was born. She stopped calling when my mom told her I wasn't seeking child support. Nobody has called since then. I have a court hearing for full custody July 10 he's been served but hasn't answered. It's better this way. He's a bad person, and I don't want that for my son. Sometimes it's better to do it on your own. Stay strong hun!