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Disability.

Yes, i would keep my child
 
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No, i will not
 
17% (6 votes)

Disability.

posted 20th Jun '12
My cousin laughed and asked me. what if you had a Handicap baby.
I told her, i would keep My baby, even though my baby may be down syndrome and how the society think "Not normal". I would love my child either way, it would be hard for me physically and emotinally especially being so young and not having any knowledge about that side, I dont think i could leave my blood and bones my other side of me. or give him or her away.

What im asking, is that if you were carrying and your child had a disibility would you terminate your child, or would you care for your child and do as much as you could?

Ps: My baby is Healthy and normal. but i wanna know what you think.

Note: If you donot understand What im saying above, please donot comment. with a Your comment does not make sense, or hatery replies. thanks
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I'm due December 22nd (a boy) & live in Auckland, New Zealand
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posted 20th Jun '12
It would depend on what the disability was, what the actual percentage of them diagnosing it correctly was, and my husbands thoughts.
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I'm due with triplets March 21st, have 2 kids & live in Pinckney, Michigan
posted 20th Jun '12
I would keep the baby 100%.
and it is Do Not sorry it was bugging me
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I'm TTC since March '11, have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Unadilla, New York
posted 20th Jun '12
Depends on the disability, id terminate if able vs. Adoption.
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I'm due May 2nd (a girl), have 5 angel babies & live in Tuvalu
posted 20th Jun '12
depends on the dissability and how sure they were they had it. i have nothing against terminating for DS
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I have 3 kids & live in Zambia
posted 20th Jun '12
To the person who said No.
That made me cry  
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I'm due December 22nd (a boy) & live in Auckland, New Zealand
posted 20th Jun '12
Keep it no matter what! I worked with special needs kids and they are really special for real! I would have thought different before I worked with them and when u are educated on their needs you love them just the same as you would any "normal" child. Mind you the kids I worked with lived in a home and were all given up by their parents. They ranged in disability severety and were aged 7 to 26. I loved them I don't understand how their parents were able to give them up even if it were for financial reasons.
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I have 3 kids & live in Wildomar, California
posted 20th Jun '12
depending on the handicap i would either terminate or take the adoption route. i don't think i could be able to care for a handicapped kid, i see what my grandparents went through with my uncle, i couldn't handle the mental and financial strain.
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I have 1 child & live in Maryland
posted 20th Jun '12
Quoting Kellon Leef:" To the person who said No. That made me cry  "

why? it wouldn't keep it either, it would be best for the baby.
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I have 1 child & live in Maryland
posted 20th Jun '12
Depending on the severity or what it was I would possibly consider adoption.
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I live in Florida
posted 20th Jun '12
Sorry guy's. i should have put all the Disabilities out there.
But to those who said Yes. You are My role model 
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I'm due December 22nd (a boy) & live in Auckland, New Zealand
posted 20th Jun '12
Quoting Kellon Leef:" To the person who said No. That made me cry  "

i said no. if they could give me a definate 100% diagnosis of down syndrome, i would abort, no question about it
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I have 3 kids & live in Zambia
posted 20th Jun '12
I would terminate . I would be a terrible mother because my heart would break every time someone made fun of my child or every time he or she faced a challenge or failed or every time he faced difficulties. I would cry my eyes out all day every day and not only would I not be a good person, for myself, I would be a horrible , neglecting wife and an over bearing confidence taking mom.
Kudos to special need moms tho, they have huge balls.
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posted 20th Jun '12
My daughter has Down Syndrome, and I didn't know it before I had her. I loved her before I met her, I wouldn't trade her for a "normal" child.
Honestly, people laugh because they are ignorant to disabilities.
God only gives us what we can handle.
I will be the first to admit, it is really rough, at times.
But also, I was ignorant to DS before I had my daughter. People don't understand, just because you have a disability, it doesn't make you "stupid".
And we don't have children because we want them to be smart.
When you make the decision to have a child, you are having the child to love them no matter what.
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I have 1 child & live in Billings, Montana
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