Disability.
| Yes, i would keep my child | 83% (30 votes) |
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| No, i will not | 17% (6 votes) |
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Disability.
posted 20th Jun '12
My cousin laughed and asked me. what if you had a Handicap baby.
I told her, i would keep My baby, even though my baby may be down syndrome and how the society think "Not normal". I would love my child either way, it would be hard for me physically and emotinally especially being so young and not having any knowledge about that side, I dont think i could leave my blood and bones my other side of me. or give him or her away.
What im asking, is that if you were carrying and your child had a disibility would you terminate your child, or would you care for your child and do as much as you could?
Ps: My baby is Healthy and normal. but i wanna know what you think.
Note: If you donot understand What im saying above, please donot comment. with a Your comment does not make sense, or hatery replies. thanks
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
It would depend on what the disability was, what the actual percentage of them diagnosing it correctly was, and my husbands thoughts.
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
It'd depend on the disability.
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
I would keep the baby 100%.
and it is Do Not sorry it was bugging me
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
Depends on the disability, id terminate if able vs. Adoption.
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
depends on the dissability and how sure they were they had it. i have nothing against terminating for DS
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Zambiaposted 20th Jun '12
To the person who said No.
That made me cry
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
Keep it no matter what! I worked with special needs kids and they are really special for real! I would have thought different before I worked with them and when u are educated on their needs you love them just the same as you would any "normal" child. Mind you the kids I worked with lived in a home and were all given up by their parents. They ranged in disability severety and were aged 7 to 26. I loved them I don't understand how their parents were able to give them up even if it were for financial reasons.
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
depending on the handicap i would either terminate or take the adoption route. i don't think i could be able to care for a handicapped kid, i see what my grandparents went through with my uncle, i couldn't handle the mental and financial strain.
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
Quoting Kellon Leef:" To the person who said No. That made me cry "
why? it wouldn't keep it either, it would be best for the baby.
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
Depending on the severity or what it was I would possibly consider adoption.
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
Sorry guy's. i should have put all the Disabilities out there.
But to those who said Yes. You are My role model
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
Quoting Kellon Leef:" To the person who said No. That made me cry "
i said no. if they could give me a definate 100% diagnosis of down syndrome, i would abort, no question about it
quoteI have 3 kids & live in
Zambiaposted 20th Jun '12
I would terminate . I would be a terrible mother because my heart would break every time someone made fun of my child or every time he or she faced a challenge or failed or every time he faced difficulties. I would cry my eyes out all day every day and not only would I not be a good person, for myself, I would be a horrible , neglecting wife and an over bearing confidence taking mom.
Kudos to special need moms tho, they have huge balls.
quoteposted 20th Jun '12
My daughter has Down Syndrome, and I didn't know it before I had her. I loved her before I met her, I wouldn't trade her for a "normal" child.
Honestly, people laugh because they are ignorant to disabilities.
God only gives us what we can handle.
I will be the first to admit, it is really rough, at times.
But also, I was ignorant to DS before I had my daughter. People don't understand, just because you have a disability, it doesn't make you "stupid".
And we don't have children because we want them to be smart.
When you make the decision to have a child, you are having the child to love them no matter what.
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