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Ok so i know this may be a weird question but my SO is really into wanting to try anal sex... i am terrified of even trying it but i want to so he can see how it feels i guess.. So i guess the question is how do you get to become comfortable with it or even getting the courage to attempt it  What makes it not hurt?

Relax and lots of lube. The tenser you are the more it hurts. So take it slow, just do a little bit at a time. Make sure you use lots of lube and RELAXXXX.

Lots of lube and fingers first lol

And gotta relax

boooooooooze.

Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" Relax and lots of lube. The tenser you are the more it hurts. So take it slow, just do a little bit at a time. Make sure you use lots of lube and RELAXXXX. "

This! Although I found that getting really drunk helped me relax!

5 words: Get. Drunk. Lots. Of. Lube.

 


but in all seriousness, being a little bit tipsy did calm my nerves and lots of lubes is important. Also make sure you guys start with something else first not just go straight for anal, get in the mood, loosen up. It's also a good idea to get a smaller dildo/vibrator to play with before the real thing goes in. It's all a matter of experimenting to see what works best for you, what positions feel better etc etc. Remind him that he's not on the receiving end, so he should be patient and should get mad if he doesn't go all the way the first time or if you suddenly decide to stop. Good Luck.

It hurt and was extremely uncomfortable when we did it and we used lube and numbing stuff. I'll never do it again.

lol well i would love to get really drunk but i am 37 weeks pregnant so that is out of the question lol

Quoting Blythe.:" boooooooooze. "

This! looool

I'm readin this and sittin clunchin my bum cheeks lol ...my partner made the wrong exit once and omg never again lol

Quoting Kotie Anglemyer:" Ok so i know this may be a weird question but my SO is really into wanting to try anal sex... i am terrified ... [snip!] ... question is how do you get to become comfortable with it or even getting the courage to attempt it  What makes it not hurt?"

lots of lube.. and try it with him being on top... basically like missionary just the other hole.. it hurts less like that.. and honestly the more aroused you are the less its guna hurt.. But when it first goes it it hurts really bad for about 30 seconds.. then it goes away.. So if anything make him go in really slow... and when that terrible pain comes make him get out and wait till it stops hurting.. after that he should be fine to get back in.. Lmao. Dont mean to sound like an expert or anything but Ive done it a few times hahaha

take a Vicodin first 1st and don't do it when ur pregnant, not a good idea. And also if you do it once he is gonna want it again lol if I could go back in time I NEVER would of tried it cuz now he always wants to do it even tho we never do he just wont shut up about it.

Quoting excpecting #2:" take a Vicodin first 1st and don't do it when ur pregnant, not a good idea. And also if you do it once ... [snip!] ... go back in time I NEVER would of tried it cuz now he always wants to do it even tho we never do he just wont shut up about it."

Why can't you have butt sex while pregnant? Is this something new?

no but its way more uncomfortable and you can take anything or drink to help u relax. I will never do it unless i take something 1st im just a chicken. you can do it if you want but I wouldn't try anal out for the 1st time if i was 9 months pregnant but thats just me

Quoting excpecting #2:" no but its way more uncomfortable and you can take anything or drink to help u relax. I will never do ... [snip!] ... a chicken. you can do it if you want but I wouldn't try anal out for the 1st time if i was 9 months pregnant but thats just me"

I've found it more pleasurable while pregnant...