Quoting MommyCaroline:" Yes, I DEF blame the man who raped the girl(s). They CHOSE to act on their impulses.... BUT it was the women who wear the skimpy clothes who started it..."
I honeslty disagree with this. I was hurt by a 70 year old man when I was 11 and I was dressed completly coverd.
And when I was 18 when I DID dress trashy if I had gotten raped then and someone said I started it by what I was wearing....Hell. That's horrible.
Honestly rape is about power. It's NEVER a womens fault. What if you had a daughter who snuck behind your back and dressed a certain way? (that's what I did when I was a teen) What if she got raped?? Would you tell her it's HIS fault...but also yours because you started the impulse?????????
Like I can understand some of what you try to say..but this is not true at all and very sad.