re: Rude belly comments

I also got told that I should have an abortion because i am " an ungrateful adoptee bastard that thould have been aborted. I feel sorry for your child"

this came from a complete stranger. I am very grateful....and I will be the best mother Icould possibly be. Who is this guy to judge and say smurf like that?

Quoting A&J. ♥:" "they have abortions for little girls like you""

&& how did you refrain from whacking them over the head or punching them in the face?? Seriously Im all for being the bigger person....but Sm*rf there is a limit.

Quoting Krista Alyward:" I hate the "Not due till Sept??? What, is it twins??" Makes me wanna punch someone..."

this is the one I have heard the most....it pisses me off and someone all the time talking about I'm too fat...yes i have gained more weight then i should have but me and my baby still healthy..when i tell ppl i got 5 weeks left they look at me like im just the most disgusting thing they have ever seen

Quoting Heather Lephew:" this is the one I have heard the most....it pisses me off and someone all the time talking about I'm ... [snip!] ... still healthy..when i tell ppl i got 5 weeks left they look at me like im just the most disgusting thing they have ever seen"

I got that all the time too. It was so damn annoying. I'm barely over 5 feet tall and I went from 120 pounds at about 10 weeks from being sick to 189 at my last checkup 4 days before giving birth and I had randoms trying to tell me that my due date must be wrong and I must be overdue.

Oh, and the random people blurting out dates to me towards the end was annoying too. Some guy yelled "8 more days!" at me from across the street when I was already 7 days over. What a bastard!

Had a man say " Oh my god, she is HUGE and really shouldn't be eating all that Chinese food."but tried to say it under his breath but I heard him clear as day! I'm pretty much 9 months now and your can clearly tell I'm pregnant. I was so mad, I screamed at him and told him I'm pregnant, and the next time he is going to talk about someone in public he should try to learn to whisper. When I got home i felt kind of dumb for yelling in public and decided to not allow anyone get to me like that. So now, when i hear people say things, I just smile at them.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenijo:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *L0ViN.J.D.&M*:</b>" "you cant be 6m pregnant! Theirs no way ... [snip!] ... is flat! Nobody believes im pregnant. :/"</blockquote> If you're due October 21st then you're 22 weeks not 26..."</blockquote>




As I said my "first" due date. Im technically due Sep 23rd! We were ttc I know theirs no way in due in october.

But

Babys weight is low, developement is on track. October 21st is my dut date according to weight. I changed it at my 14w ultrasound when they said I was due in oct, but dr has me still due in sep.

One time my boyfriend and I were going swimming and he looked at me and said "I feel bad for you because you don't look pregnant you look fat"  

oh.. and also i haven't experienced the fat comments but i can't stand it when people tell me how small i am for being this far a long. I am 5'4" and my pre pregnancy weight was 199 lbs. I was an emotional eater and not proud of that number at all. I found out I was pregnant, started eating healthy, taking my vitamins, and stopped my caffiene addiction cold turkey. Lost 20 lbs in my first trimester and have only gained 5 back. I am now almost 30 weeks along.

I have a noticeable bump but when people aske me when I am due, they are shocked I am due sept 1st. " omg giirrrllll you need to go eat a cheeseburger!!" As much as i'd love to indulge on anything i wanted, I can't cause of GD. I also get " there's no way a baby is in there! How does he fit???" It just pisses me off and gets annoying!

Quoting Stephsfanny:" I've been told multiple times by friends that I'm "no spring chicken" or a bit too old to be having a ... [snip!] ... shirt!" "You look pregnant from behind now!" ugh ... all these comments equate to, "You're getting bigger, fatter, wider, etc.""

Crikey - I'm forty with my first pregnancy and not a single person has said anything but nice congratulatory things! I'm so surprised to read people around you are making such comments, I hope you haven't taken it to heart!
Best wishes!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gen40:</b>" Crikey - I'm forty with my first pregnancy and not a single person has said anything but nice congratulatory ... [snip!] ... things! I'm so surprised to read people around you are making such comments, I hope you haven't taken it to heart! Best wishes!"</blockquote>


It's called Utah, where women are married by 20 and having grand kids in their 40s, so I'm pushing the envelope here. I definitely don't take it to heart.

The most rude comment I got was from my mom. I told her I bought a swim suit, and she asked, "Oh, a fat one?!"
Besides that, I haven't had any rude comments. I've had a lot of older women give me dirty looks, probably because I look a lot younger than I am.

My sister said "no offense but your belly is ugly without a shirt over it"

I got alot of stretch marks  

and people tend to tell me im big and it makes me feel kinda bad.

I'm getting ticked with the are you sure you're not due until September? How many are there? You're so huge!!!!

Oh and my favorite of all, you waddle like a duck.

Why yes thank you, I didn't realize I looked pregnant at all, I thought I must have just swallowed a water mellon sees that's growing. I mustn't know what I have inside me at. Why thanks for pointing out how smurfing huge I am, I didn't already feel like a beached whale.

Let's see you walk normally with a smurfing head between your legs!!!!

Ok I'm over tired and bitchy I think

Was at my local super centre and bussiness lady was selling stuff and she said are you having twins and i said im only having a girl, her mouth opened in shock as i said to my partner how rude ! Lol but ohwell being pregnant and knowing you have a healthy doesnt matter what people say  

" why didn't you use birth control? "
" well is it twins in there or what? "