about damn time

Went to court and got temp. sole custody and an order for child suport. Thank the smurfing LORD!!! I just hope this dosen't cause a bunch of drama with my POS BD and his family. But I don't give a smurf!

Last week my daughter went over to BD and got hurt no one told me about it. (look at my last post) So BD asked me if he could see LO on fathers day, I told him I wanted LO to see her great grandpa due to his declining health and I didn't think little one was safe with him and the next thing I know his mother left me a message saying, 'what the hell is my problem, I had LO for mothers day, who do I think I am.' She was just using this bitchy tone and acting like a bully, belittling me and all this smurf.

I hateeeeee this lady with a passion. When I starting dating someone else months after BD broke up with me due to his mental issues that came up after LO was born, lying, and complete neglect of his family, she had the nerve to call me and say I have no regards to who I have my children with and that I was a horrible person.

When I than told her I needed to know where my LO was when she was with them, she insulted my parenting and brought up my LO getting hurt when I was watching her and all this bull smurf.

I honestly hate this bitch.

And I feel so bad for my LO that I went and had her with a person that wasn't emotionally ready to have children and has too many issues to name, so his horrid mother thinks she can bully me around and treat me like smurf to get what she wants for her son.

This bitch is making me never want to let these people see LO.

I need to do what is best for my daughter, and she makes me want to just be like smurf off.

God give me will to do what is best for her!

You have to do what you feel is best with your LO. Sounds like the apple didn't fall far from the tree with your child's father. His mom sounds like a piece of work. Best thing I can suggest is to not respond to her and save all the messages she sends to show she has been harassing you. Document everything that happens!!!!! Wishing you and your LO the best!

Quoting Lexi-Avery-Dylan-Gabe:" You have to do what you feel is best with your LO. Sounds like the apple didn't fall far from the tree ... [snip!] ... messages she sends to show she has been harassing you. Document everything that happens!!!!! Wishing you and your LO the best!"

kids get hurt all the time... just because you dont like this mom it was kinda of mean to not let him see her on fathers day.. could have split the time with ur family and his

Quoting Abigails_Mommy_222:" kids get hurt all the time... just because you dont like this mom it was kinda of mean to not let him see her on fathers day.. could have split the time with ur family and his"

You obviously didn't bother to go read the other post...I saw it when she first posted it and the pic that came with it...I think she has every right to say f off and keep lo away from him and his family.

Omg! I just saw the picture. Screw his family you have a temporary court order right now. If he doesn't like it, he can argue it out in court and he'll have a good time explaining those cuts on her face. Poor baby girl.

If my kid had come home looking like that from her father's then she'd never see his family again and there'd be a court order to back it up. But I don't play around when it comes to my kid. He would be more than welcome to see her but not his family. You don't lie to someone about what happened to their kid...and you sure as hell better tell them what the smurf happened in the first place instead of acting like nothing happened.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Abigails_Mommy_222:</b>" kids get hurt all the time... just because you dont like this mom it was kinda of mean to not let him see her on fathers day.. could have split the time with ur family and his"</blockquote>

Here's a thought...I have 4 kids....I obviously realize kids get hurt. Did you happen to look at that previous post? If not, please do.... and then rethink your comment! K, thanks!

I'm glad you have not let her go back over there. Too dangerous for her, hope all goes well in court