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GONE GONE & GONE !

i havent been through that, but i think what you are feeling is normal. you have two options though, hide it and be there for your friend, or be honest and let her know that it is hard for you. I am sure she will understand if she really is a good friend. Also, i think time will heal you and it will get easier. Again, i have never been through that but best of luck.

Sweety you're never wrong for having your own feelings and emotions. I'm sorry for your loss. I think it takes time to heal and the jealousy or sadness you're feeling is completely normal. It takes time. Let yourself greive and heal. Take the time you need. Every loss needs to be greived and you're allowed to do so. It should go away with time. In the meantime, i'd join a club or a dance class or do whatever I could to take my mind off of it. Good luck, I wish you the best

think it;s completely normal. You went through a loss and now seeing her where you could have been is affecting you emotionally. Why don't you just talk to her about it? Don't let it ruin your relationship with her just let her know that you care about her and explain why it's hard for you right now. If she's your friend she should understand especially since she was with you through your loss. I'm sorry you're going through this

Absolutely. I hated everyone and everything after I lost my baby. Especially when I saw pregnant women around me. I honestly didn't feel better until I was pregnant again.....I know it is hard, but in time you will start feeling better. It has been 3 years since I had a m/c and I think about that baby daily, but the pain of the loss gets less as time goes on.

Thank you ladies for your supportive feed back. I feel bad sometimes because she was VERY supportive through my pregnancy and I just can't force myself to be around her like that. When we do hang out we'll talk about the pregnancy and it puts me a in an uncomfortable place. I would love to talk with her about it but our friendship has also died down because of her boyfriend she's the type that when she gets with someone she'll isolate herself completely to them and cut all her friends off that's another reason why we haven't been talking.

I'm sorry for your loss. Our stories are similar in a way. March 29th was the day I apparently conceived. I also lost my little one when he/she was just gone 8 weeks. I found out at the 12 week scan. My bestfriend was already pregnant when I found out, she was only a week ahead of me. She had her 12 week scan the day before me, and text me telling me how her baby was sucking his/her thumb, eating its foot, and wouldn't stop moving. Then it makes me even more excited for my scan the very next day and I turn up to find out my baby is dead which was such a shock considering I already saw him/her at 8 weeks actually looking like a little baby already. It's been 2 weeks since I found out about our loss and 10 days since my operation, and I haven't seen my friend Layla since. I just can't bear to see her or even hear her name right now. I miss her too, and I don't know why i'm being so selfish because it's no ones fault. It's just because I know our babies would be the same gestational age and we would have the same size bump and all the small little things are just getting to me the most. I don't know when i'm supposed to see her, i've just got no interest in her right now. I don't care. xx