Boyfriend Cheating

Hey everyone...im 19 weeks pregnant and for the past 4 weeks ive been having a dream that my boyfriend is cheating on me and im catching him...i do not no theses girls that he is with....but last night i had a dream that i caught him in the act with one of his mates a lad mate....the dream was so so real and i woke up crying,. I remember everything from the dream...from him saying he dint want to be with me and that he was gay??????

Someone please help as its really stressfull and isnt helping our relationship ...Thank you

Quoting XxCharlottexX:" Hey everyone...im 19 weeks pregnant and for the past 4 weeks ive been having a dream that my boyfriend ... [snip!] ... me and that he was gay?????? Someone please help as its really stressfull and isnt helping our relationship ...Thank you "

dreams arent real.... how could it put a strain on your relationship?  
i had a dream my partner was burning to death at his mums old house and was walking towards me asking for help but i couldnt do anything... doesnt mean thats actually going to happen...  

Quoting Rachy84:" dreams arent real.... how could it put a strain on your relationship?   i had a dream my partner was ... [snip!] ... house and was walking towards me asking for help but i couldnt do anything... doesnt mean thats actually going to happen...  "

seriously?!

Quoting XxCharlottexX:" Hey everyone...im 19 weeks pregnant and for the past 4 weeks ive been having a dream that my boyfriend ... [snip!] ... me and that he was gay?????? Someone please help as its really stressfull and isnt helping our relationship ...Thank you "

I have stupid dreams like that alot too...ill watch some show on tv about someone cheating then go to sleep and ill dream its my husband cheating lol I know sounds crazy. I even wake up mad sometimes but its just a dream not real life. I really hope your not arguing with him about a dream you had.

Quoting milo456:" seriously?!"

seriously.

I had A LOT of dream like this when pregnant. I actually woke angry at my DH and it took me a day or so to get over it. Once I wasn't pregnant anymore they went away   Stupid pregnancy hormones!

Quoting Rachy84:" seriously."

No I mean like, I agree with you  

OMG, i have many many stupid dreams... and they are mostly about my SO mom..
it's terrifying!

Quoting milo456:" No I mean like, I agree with you  "

 

we arnt arguing over it..its just making it hard for me to be close to him.  
i have had plenty of experiencing where ex partners have cheated and i do find it really hard to trust......a lot of people have just said its my hormones :/ but i just thought id ask for help!

Quoting XxCharlottexX:" Hey everyone...im 19 weeks pregnant and for the past 4 weeks ive been having a dream that my boyfriend ... [snip!] ... me and that he was gay?????? Someone please help as its really stressfull and isnt helping our relationship ...Thank you "

i used to always have nightmares when pregnant just remember theyre not real and try not to take it out on your SO, i mean its not theyre fault that theyre in our dreams.

Quoting XxCharlottexX:" we arnt arguing over it..its just making it hard for me to be close to him.   i have had plenty of ... [snip!] ... i do find it really hard to trust......a lot of people have just said its my hormones :/ but i just thought id ask for help!"

remember its a dream, not reality  

Quoting XxCharlottexX:" we arnt arguing over it..its just making it hard for me to be close to him.   i have had plenty of ... [snip!] ... i do find it really hard to trust......a lot of people have just said its my hormones :/ but i just thought id ask for help!"

I know how you feel... pregnant women have VERY vivid dreams, and it seems like our dreams mess with our emotions and insecurities sometimes.
Just keep telling yourself, hes never given me a reason to think hes cheating, he loves me, and its just a stupid dream.

Keep the communication open with him about these dreams but dont let it effect your relationship with him.

It's normal for pregnant women to have vivid dreams. I have vivid dreams like that sometimes too, SO thinks it hilarious when I wake up pissed lol.

Just remind yourself that it was just a dream and move on.

we always talk about them...because otherwise its eats me up, we have a very solid relationship i just didnt no wether these dreams wher normal. We are both really in love with each so i no i dont have to worry that he is going to cheat, they just really confuse me and mess with my emotions