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Why are so many young women having babies????

posted 17th Jun '12
I am new to BG and have noticed that there are so many young moms or moms–to-be on here. I am 29 and pregnant with my first and I just feel like all the young moms are missing out on so much when they start a family so early. What about traveling, school, friends, enjoying alone time with your husbands’ or significant others’....I know some pregnancies are an accident but I could never imagine myself at 16 to 21 years old TRYING to start a family. I am not judging, I just want to know your feelings on this........

UPDATED:
I just wanted to say that in no way am I judging young moms. I just want to become more educated on why they started early. I would have started earlier too if I was able too but I was not. I wanted young mom’s opinions’ and thoughts. If you were or are offended by my question I apologize. But I genuinely would like to know. Thanks!
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 17th Jun '12
Quoting Jan.2013Momma:" I am new to BG and have noticed that there are so many young moms or moms–to-be on here. I am 29 and ... [snip!] ... myself at 16 to 21 years old TRYING to start a family. I am not judging, I just want to know your feelings on this........ "
 
Yeah....that's it....it's a NEW thing.  
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Panama City Beach, Florida
posted 17th Jun '12
Smurf happens. And its not your smurfing buisness.
quotesmurfs?
I live in New York
posted 17th Jun '12
Because it took older women to long to figure out what sex was  
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I have 1 child & live in Dunlap, Tennessee
posted 17th Jun '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jan.2013Momma:</b>" I am new to BG and have noticed that there are so many young moms or moms–to-be on here. I am 29 and ... [snip!] ... myself at 16 to 21 years old TRYING to start a family. I am not judging, I just want to know your feelings on this........ "</blockquote>




They are having sex and its equalling babies
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I have 2 kids & live in Washington
posted 17th Jun '12
It's MORE of a new thing for people to wait so long to have babies!
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I have 3 kids & live in Findlay, Ohio
posted 17th Jun '12
If you're not judging maybe you should rephrase your paragraph lol. Sounds pretty judgmental to me. (And no, I didn't have my children young so I'm not just being sensitive about it)
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I live in California
posted 17th Jun '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting sueforizzle:</b>"   Yeah....that's it....it's a NEW thing.  "</blockquote>




Omg! Your ultrasound is so good!
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I live in New York
posted 17th Jun '12
I promise, this post will be in TDC before we know it.
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I'm due June 21st (a girl), have 4 kids & live in Griffin, Georgia
posted 17th Jun '12
Quoting °NoName™°¯\_(ツ)_/¯:" Smurf happens. And its not your smurfing buisness."

A-smurfing-men.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Faribault, Minnesota
posted 17th Jun '12
Because I needed a tiny person to match my shoes to since I atopped carrying a person.
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I live in Maine
posted 17th Jun '12
No idea. Sex =\= equal babies tho. Just so everyone knows its masturbation in the shower.
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I'm due September 28th (a girl), have 4 kids & live in Nova Scotia
posted 17th Jun '12
Quoting Jan.2013Momma:" I am new to BG and have noticed that there are so many young moms or moms–to-be on here. I am 29 and ... [snip!] ... myself at 16 to 21 years old TRYING to start a family. I am not judging, I just want to know your feelings on this........ "
It really isn't anything to do with age, its when you are ready to start a family. Not everyone has the same plans as others, you can still travel with children its just more expensive, you can still attend school, & you can still have time with friends. I prefer to be a young mom and am excited to be young still when my child is grown up   everyone is different.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Riverview, Florida
posted 17th Jun '12
Quoting omdjt:" It's MORE of a new thing for people to wait so long to have babies!"

 
New Age concept.
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Panama City Beach, Florida
posted 17th Jun '12
I was 16 when I had my first 19 my second and 22 my third..im now 28 and having my 4th and last...i went to college and have a nursing degree and I NEVER feel like I missed out on anything. I went to prom and have traveled all over ...yeah of course it takes a little extra planning and some sacrifices but I wouldnt change it for the world.
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I have 3 kids & live in New York
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