Am I wrong? ^vent^

Im seriously sitting here in tears. I just want to pack up and never look back. Ever since me and my XH split up I feel like he is out to torment me and make my life a living hell. I seriously cant take it anymore! He just lives to smurf with me! Everyday he finds something to bitch about! DS isn't even here yet and he wants to argue! I wish I never met him and I wasn't stuck with him forever. Is it wrong if I just pick up and leave? He is so emotional abusive. I am so scared of how things will be when DS gets here. He has threatened to kill me and himself. I feel like he's mentally off his rocker. I just cant take it anymore! Thursday morning I went to the hospital due to contractions. its too soon for DS to come. Im only 27 weeks but I feel so overwhelmed and so stressed. Its to the point where I want to change my number and not even tell him when I deliver. I know it sounds so horrible but I seriously feel like Im losing it.

no you are not wrong. you are right actually. if he has threatened to kill you, I'd smurfing leave. Now.

I kno how u feel! Me and my BD brke up wednesday cuz we argue to much an my bp was up when I went to the doctor Wednesday! This is my first child and I'm so in love wit her daddy and want to wrk on things and it kills me that I've been away frm him almost a week! He tried to call me yesturday but I didn't answer it! I'm jus so convused on what to do...be with him or not? Is love really enough? I hope everything works out for u. Keep ur head up. It'll all wrk out!

Quoting Remembering Cortnie:" no you are not wrong. you are right actually. if he has threatened to kill you, I'd smurfing leave. Now."

Its like I moved out and Im staying with my parents. In the process of buying a house but I dont even want to be in the same state with him. I want to just wash my hands with him. These past couple of months have been pure hell. I cant take anymore. Its like being an hour away from him isnt good enough!

you need to get a protection order first off then he cant contact you or he will be locked up. then yes I would pack up and move FAR AWAY!

Quoting Jenny Schmitz:" I kno how u feel! Me and my BD brke up wednesday cuz we argue to much an my bp was up when I went to ... [snip!] ... what to do...be with him or not? Is love really enough? I hope everything works out for u. Keep ur head up. It'll all wrk out!"

I wish I could say love was enough... but for me it wasnt   good luck honey. do whats best for you and your child.

Restraining order and leave

<blockquote><b>Quoting [♥Permanent♥]:</b>" I wish I could say love was enough... but for me it wasnt   good luck honey. do whats best for you and your child."</blockquote>




Thanks! I'm tryn! This is the 3rd time I've moved out while being pregnant! Only time will tell!

Quoting ♥2ndTri♥:" you need to get a protection order first off then he cant contact you or he will be locked up. then yes I would pack up and move FAR AWAY!"

Can I do that and leave? Like at this point I don't want anything from him for DS. Not child support, diapers, nothing. I want to wash my hands and never look back. I feel like such a bitch to say I don't want him in either of our lives but I seriously don't want anything to do with him. He's crazy and emotionally unstable. I don't know what to do.

<blockquote><b>Quoting [♥Permanent♥]:</b>" Can I do that and leave? Like at this point I don't want anything from him for DS. Not child support, ... [snip!] ... of our lives but I seriously don't want anything to do with him. He's crazy and emotionally unstable. I don't know what to do."</blockquote>



It will first be a temp one until you go to court...make sure you go or they will drop it...then you will have another court. Date so stay close enough to attend or find a lawyer

Quoting Remembering Cortnie:" no you are not wrong. you are right actually. if he has threatened to kill you, I'd smurfing leave. Now."

   

Quoting Puff the Magic Dragon!:"    "

Alex... sigh I feel like everything is falling apart.

Quoting [♥Permanent♥]:" Alex... sigh I feel like everything is falling apart."

  .. I'm so sorry Starr! Are you still at your parents? Or did you go back?

Quoting Puff the Magic Dragon!:"   .. I'm so sorry Starr! Are you still at your parents? Or did you go back?"

nope. Im still with my parents. The night I was going back he accused me of cheating on him and being with another man while he was on the phone. Called me a bitch and told me how much I smurfed up his life. When in all actuality I was with my mom   I feel like these past 2 years were a mistake. I don't regret my son but I wish he was made with someone else.

Quoting [♥Permanent♥]:" nope. Im still with my parents. The night I was going back he accused me of cheating on him and being ... [snip!] ... with my mom   I feel like these past 2 years were a mistake. I don't regret my son but I wish he was made with someone else."

That's how i feel, except 6 years of life wasted.
I commend you for staying strong, i give you full props.
You are strong ! You will do what's best, he's trying to hurt you, nothing is cheating when you aren't together just remember that! He can't do smurf to you Starr. He's the one that's 'abusive' towards you, and making false accusations.