frustration...

i have been with my partner about a year and have only ever climaxed during sex with him once. sex was never really a big deal for me at the start but i'm finding i'm getting more and more sexually frustrated... when we have sex he doesn't last long enough for me to climax and once he's done he just pulls out and i'm left disappointed... he is good with his hands and can satisfy me that way but it's just not the same. any advice? sorry if this offends anyone...

talk to him about it?
us ea toy during sex. cup his balls a press gently yet firm when he thinks he is goign to cum, so he stops and you can.

I AM HIGHLY OFFENDED

Quoting furrbabiesmommy:" talk to him about it? us ea toy during sex. cup his balls a press gently yet firm when he thinks he is goign to cum, so he stops and you can. "

Hmm I would but I don't want to upset him lol as he doesn't know... and I have tried things like that but nothing seems to work. I think I just take an extra long time, the fault probably lies with me.

Quoting Danielle: Jack&Basil'sMom:" I AM HIGHLY OFFENDED"

Lol, I thought I'd throw it in there because you never know...

Quoting Ellie Shikari:" Hmm I would but I don't want to upset him lol as he doesn't know... and I have tried things like that ... [snip!] ... have tried things like that but nothing seems to work. I think I just take an extra long time, the fault probably lies with me."

have him get you off first?