After I posted that my husband and I haven't had sex since I began showing, I got a lot of PM's about women who's husbands did the same thing. While I've resorted to using the shower head, a couple of women told me they'd had affairs while pregnant just to keep a hold of their sex drive. !!!!! Crazy, right? I haven't had an affair, I swear. I'm just curious. So, here's the question:

How Have You Been Dealing With Your Husbands Lack Of Sex Drive While You've Been Pregnant?

My Man wanted sex just as often as i did he was working on the road away from home at the time and whenever he was home he wanted it as much as i did and the times he didnt i just used toys

It's the opposite for us. DH wants it all the time and I never want it.

He's still all over me and I'm 38 weeks now.  

I'm not a cheater so i would say toys or i would deal with it. sex isn't everything to me

Wow! I'm jealous of y'all!

Quoting L ♡:" I'm not a cheater so i would say toys or i would deal with it. sex isn't everything to me"

I'm not a cheater either, it was just a question. Sex isn't EVERYTHING to me, but I enjoy it quite a bit.

SO and I are 4 hours apart at the moment. I'm staying with my parents right now to help them out. I don't have a shower head or sex toys, but my hand works just fine and I sneak some porn when everyone is asleep.

I would never have an affair, especially while pregnant. I think that would be too weird for me!!

Quoting Angie (::" I'm not a cheater either, it was just a question. Sex isn't EVERYTHING to me, but I enjoy it quite a bit."

Good thing baby will be here in less then a month right?   Haha

Quoting MommyRu:" SO and I are 4 hours apart at the moment. I'm staying with my parents right now to help them out. I don't ... [snip!] ... when everyone is asleep. I would never have an affair, especially while pregnant. I think that would be too weird for me!! "

Right? I can't imagine ever doing that!

Quoting L ♡:" Good thing baby will be here in less then a month right?   Haha"

Haha for sure!

<blockquote><b>Quoting L ♡:</b>" I'm not a cheater so i would say toys or i would deal with it. sex isn't everything to me"</blockquote>




Agreed sex isn't everything find some romantic things to do and wait Intel both are comfortable.

<blockquote><b>Quoting L ♡:</b>" I'm not a cheater so i would say toys or i would deal with it. sex isn't everything to me"</blockquote>




Agreed sex isn't everything find some romantic things to do and wait Intel both are comfortable.

I never even knew some men did that! How interesting.

We had sex through out my whole pregnancy, big belly and all. Only time we didn't when was the DR said not too after a surgery but.. yeah   During the time we couldn't have sex we did erm, other things. Maybe you can do that too?  

My husband wanted it just as much however, I was on pelvic rest almost all of my 2nd pregnancy. If I can go that long without sex then not getting sex from your husband isn't an excuse to cheat. It's just sex, you don't need it survive even an entire 9 months.

Quoting Teagans_Mom:" My husband wanted it just as much however, I was on pelvic rest almost all of my 2nd pregnancy. If I ... [snip!] ... not getting sex from your husband isn't an excuse to cheat. It's just sex, you don't need it survive even an entire 9 months."

I think you misunderstood my post. I'm not saying I'm going to cheat on him. Not at all. I love my husband very much. But it is a bit of a downer to not be having sex like we used to.