re: Father's Day

Quoting Melissa ღ:" Yep same as my bd so I feel you on that. I told him that many times and then when he decides he wants ... [snip!] ... these huge excuses and sob stories like I am smurfing over it. He causes more trouble than anything and he isn't even worth it."

Exactly. Like I said a few posts above, I guess I should be thankful hes somewhat around, but at this point in her life, be in it full time like a real father, or dont' be in it at all. That's how I feel.

Quoting Heather [16wks]♡:" That's how I feel. He wasn't around when she was a baby, or even the past few years, he just started ... [snip!] ... a babysitter, get her for the day and play around but when it comes down to being a "parenting - father" part , hes not around."

Oh yea, they think it is all fun and games. It shows how immature they really are. I won't let my bd take my DD out until he comes around enough and shows me he can be a father and take care of her on his own.

Quoting Heather [16wks]♡:" Exactly. Like I said a few posts above, I guess I should be thankful hes somewhat around, but at this ... [snip!] ... around, but at this point in her life, be in it full time like a real father, or dont' be in it at all. That's how I feel."

Nah I wouldn't be thankful for that smurf and I am not. What so it can smurf her up more emotionally than not knowing him period? I would him rather move the smurf on and not say smurf to me period then trying to do that in and out smurf.