She's on her period

And she expects me to clean the restroom? I clean the restroom EVERY CHANCE I GET!!!!! And when she (sister in law) comes home with her kid, bath toys and pubic hair are everywhere. After I freshly clean it!!!! And now she's on her period and left blood stains on the toilet, left her period pads hanging out of the trash can... And she leaves a note for me to clean it?! Last night I almost puked because of the smell of her pads in the trash can... I had to spray febreeze directly IN THE TRASH just so i could pee without vomiting all over the place....






Am i wrong to be pissed about this? Since i moved in here, not once has she cleaned the restroom and only when her and her kid trash it beyond recognition she leaves a note for it to be cleaned...

Do you pay rent?

uh....there's NO way I'd be cleaning that mess if it wasn't mine .

smurf that id pick up her smurf (with gloves on of course) and put it all over her bed

NO way ok help around the house but cleaning up after her everytime she makes it dirty especially when its freaking body fluid, you are not obligated to do that at all ! Holy hell is be kick off

is take a joke??


I would tape the same note she left you to HER door using one of her disgusting pads.

Ewwwwwwww

That's gnarly.

Quoting Bobo's mum:" is take a joke?? I would tape the same note she left you to HER door using one of her disgusting pads. "

!!!!!!

no way I;d move out I would never live in those conditions that just nasty. I'm not even sure how one makes a mess like that with out just being a pig.

wow.... ew.

thats nasty.

Wow the nerve of her to ask.I know sometimes i make a mistake and dont see the blood thats on the bottom part of the toilet seat but now i double check so i wont be embarrassed like when i was 15.I ALWAYS throw my pads away in a plastic shopping bag and throw it out in the big garbage outside.I hate the smell of my own blood let alone anyone elses UGH.

Quoting Iyahna :^P:" Wow the nerve of her to ask.I know sometimes i make a mistake and dont see the blood thats on the bottom ... [snip!] ... a plastic shopping bag and throw it out in the big garbage outside.I hate the smell of my own blood let alone anyone elses UGH."

Another good thing to do is I wrap in up with toilet tissue and put it in the diaper genie. No one needs to see that, I think most woman would check the bathroom before they leave anyhow but I have been in some pretty nasty public restrooms that I walked right back out of with out using cuz some women are nasty not all obviously. God I hope I teach my daughters better than the OP's sister in law

My husbands parents aren't making us pay rent because They're helping us to save to get our own place. Especially because we have a little one on the way. So we clean around the house, keep the yard in check and help take care of her kid because she's just to damn busy to be home and take care of her own responsibilities.

But she's taking advantage of the fact that I try to keep the house clean. Her kid spills something and she looks at me like... "Are you gonna get that? I have to get ready for work blah blah blah" and she doesn't go in till two hours later.... so she locks herself up in her room so everyone else can deal with her messes and her child.

And I would love to just throw her kids dirty diapers (that she leaves laying around) in her room and all her dirty clothes and junk in there so she can come home and actually clean up something of hers... But she's the type of person to break into our part of the house just to trash it.

Her parents always take her side on everything though. If we said "It's her turn to do the dishes or clean the restroom" they'd just tell us to do it anyways to make her life easier... (They've said that smurf to us before)

She doesn't pay rent either. She has a job and yet she always goes to her parents and asks for money so she can buy herself some new clothes or new bed spread. Not once have i seen her spend a dime on her own kid. It's always Mommy and Daddy paying for her expenses and Mommy and Daddy make us clean up after her and her kid!!!!

Quoting Cloud Cuckoo:" My husbands parents aren't making us pay rent because They're helping us to save to get our own place. ... [snip!] ... and actually clean up something of hers... But she's the type of person to break into our part of the house just to trash it. "

So is it his parents house or his sisters house. If it's his parents house could you talk to them or have your SO talk to who ever, not only should you not be there little bitch but there are just certain messess that a person needs to clean up for them selves. Hell if I had a maid I wouldn't leave that kind of a mess for her to clean up thats just gross. not to mention as someone else said I'd be so embarrased if I left that for someone else to even see nevemind to clean