re: She's on her period

That's gross. I'd clean it if it's going to cause drama if you didn't but I would make a diagram labeled "Proper waste disposal for dummies", make it super snarky with pictures and everything, print it out and and tape it over the toilet.

Quoting Nichole Melius:" So is it his parents house or his sisters house. If it's his parents house could you talk to them or ... [snip!] ... gross. not to mention as someone else said I'd be so embarrased if I left that for someone else to even see nevemind to clean"

Its his parents house. And we've tried talking to them about it. They told us to just do it so we can make her life easier. Those were there exact words!!!! I walked away and cried my eyes out when they said that to us. Im pregnant and I have to clean her smurf just to make HER life easier?! (at least according to them)

Quoting 3 little monsters:" That's gross. I'd clean it if it's going to cause drama if you didn't but I would make a diagram labeled ... [snip!] ... waste disposal for dummies", make it super snarky with pictures and everything, print it out and and tape it over the toilet. "

I like this idea... But she loves Drama and would probably attack my husband like she's done before. This women drives me insane. She has no good hygiene, and from what i've seen i don't think she owns a tooth brush....

Quoting Cloud Cuckoo:" Its his parents house. And we've tried talking to them about it. They told us to just do it so we can ... [snip!] ... when they said that to us. Im pregnant and I have to clean her smurf just to make HER life easier?! (at least according to them)"

and it's your fault her life is difficult? wtf she shouldn't have a kid if she can't even tae care of herself

Quoting Nichole Melius:" and it's your fault her life is difficult? wtf she shouldn't have a kid if she can't even tae care of herself"

Exactly my thoughts. I don't know... It's all to nerve racking and I can't help making snobby comments to her. My Husband always tells me to "shh and don't say things like that to her" because he doesn't want her to get all pissy and talk crap to me. Which would just be silly on her part because I keep all my things nice and neat and I don't ever let myself smell to the point where someone wants to puke when they walk near me.... so there would be nothing for her to bitch at me about. And I have every intentions on being there for my kids. She has... 2 other kids in another state and just left them there because she didn't want to deal with it... Came home to Mommy and Daddy when it was "Too late to have an abortion" (Her words, not mine) and just dumped her baby on them. This women has issues and I can't put my finger on it because she has WAY to many anti depressants to even count. I think she honestly believes the world revolves around her and everyone should cater to HER needs/wants.