Im so upset right now... a group of all our friends went to the beach yesterday and my husband took pictures of me and posted them on facebook without me seeing them in a bathing suit at seven months pregnant. NOT flattering ones at that and i feel so effing gross, disgusting and huge now and started cryin and told him to take them down and he got furious with me and mocks my crying like a jerk . he just doesnt understand how awful i feel about myself. I wish i never saw those pictures. I felt confident until i saw them. omg. I have never felt so gross... anyway thats that i am gonna go freak out on my own now.. I just dont understand why he didnt comfort me instead he was a total dick and mad at me
i just felt like i should have been able to approve them first.. he knows how i am. I have had an eating disorder since i was a kid, i hate the way i look all the time. Seeing myself pregnant weight is so hard and seeing it in a bathing suit on facebook... devastating... i feel so embarrassed. im praying nobody saw them.
He was definitely being insensitive, but we tend to be hard on ourselves. It's hard for me to see myself so heavy as well so I understand where you're coming from, but I know that my boyfriend tells me all the time about how sexy I am to him and I don't get it, but they love you and still think you're sexy when you feel like a fat cow, which I assure you you aren't. Honestly no one is going to judge you for what you look like, but if it still really bothers you just have a conversation with him without getting too heated and tell him you'd rather not have them online. (: