hurts more than i thought.):

short story fast...
2 years of bestfriends almost 4 years of dating & now we have a 16 month old.
we were engaged he went to the beach for a week, came back said he met someone else. flew out to see her & now she flew down here to see him. all this happend in march... and i really havent been that upset about it... until today... they confirmed they were in a relationship & said the L word...
my heart is broken... i dont even know what to do with myself... i feel like my best friend died... my whole worlds crashing... sorry its 4am here... everyones asleep & im tired of acting strong when im not.):
where do i go from here?

Wow..were you having problems before he left?

You pick yourself up and invest yourself fully in your LO. Don't even think about him. It gets better in time, and it's easier if you keep yourself distracted.

Or, you could rebound. It helped me.

Quoting *Zander's mommy*:" Wow..were you having problems before he left?"

the day before i told him not to go & we got into it... he said he wasnt going.. then the next morning he just left!
he's been telling me since march he just needs time... then THIS?! uggh.

im sorry for your news. it's so hard starting to parent solo, i've been there! as difficult as it may be however, try to separate your emotions when dealing with him. you have many years ahead of you that you'll want to be on the best terms possible. if you've been together as long as you have from such a young age it's not uncommon for him (or you) to wonder what else is out there. that part has nothing to do with you. i hope you can focus on you and your little one as much as possible! say nothing you'll regret down the road, you never know what the future holds for all of you   best wishes!

I absolutely know that feeling, hurt, jealosy, confusion, desperation...why is this happening to me and my babies???
It physically hurts, I'm so sorry. Each day has been easier and easier for me, but it's taken a while.
Like No boys allowed said, focus on your LO, relish those beautiful happy times with her.

Wait, but you have a boyfriend?......

I'm sorry   me and my BD had our relationship ruined by some homewrecking whore that he met at the beach too...she's not even from here,
I feel ya...just move on and keep your head up for your LO

Quoting Moose'sMama*:" Wait, but you have a boyfriend?......"

im talking about kinlees daddy! him & the girl he left me for said they loved eachother yesterday, and shes thinking about staying here... starting school with me in the fall. -_- i dont think i can handle it!

Quoting desi&cody:" I'm sorry   me and my BD had our relationship ruined by some homewrecking whore that he met at the beach too...she's not even from here, I feel ya...just move on and keep your head up for your LO"

she isnt either. we are in alabama & shes from ohio. shes visiting tho & thinking about staying.

Quoting -Kd.[[021311]]:" she isnt either. we are in alabama & shes from ohio. shes visiting tho & thinking about staying."

yeah exactly know how u feel shes from Indiana and we are from Maryland and shes in DC for an internship about 20 minutes from us (not happy)

Ugh i hate homewrecking sluts!

Quoting Cami+Two:" Ugh i hate homewrecking sluts!"

me toooo!