Quoting Meep:" Sounds to me like he's trying to ease her into the household. I mean she already hates being there, he's ... [snip!] ... being there, he's probably afraid treating her like the rest of the kids from the get go is going to make her hate him more."
I dont know how you came to that conclusion! She wanted to come stay with us! She doesn't hate being here or anything like that. Her mom sent her to stay with us because she couldn't handle her but she told her mom that she would rather be here.